The Mind and The Matter: The Last Post You Will Read On Women

[DonJuanForever]

FROM THE OFFICE OF DON JUAN FOREVER

This is it, I am tired of you guys struggling, since you enjoy reading posts, once you read this, remember, IF YOU CONTINUE TO FAIL WITH WOMEN IT'S YOUR FAULT. -DonJuanForever

The Mind and The Matter

The Matter

To sum it up, men are attracted to, lust after, and get a hard on, for the woman's body, or the matter. A woman's body makes a man notice her, want her, or even get to the point as to where he wants to date her. Without a nice body, the woman stands no chance in getting a date with most men.

Simply, for a woman to be lusted after and wanted by guys, she should take care of her body and dress very sexy. The more better she takes care of her body and the sexier she dresses, the more men she attracts.

DOES THIS MAKE SENSE? Not saying we don't want a certain personality, character, or other value in women, but can every guy agree with me, that the encounter begins with HOW SHE LOOKS. If she is sexy, we want her....if she is not sexy at all, we don't lust after her. It's a natural thing, our penis just doesn't get hard over women would are ugly looking, can't help it.

The Mind

To sum it up, for a man to become attractive to women, he must create this "feeL" within the core of her being, that immediately makes her want him, lust for him, and need him. This "feeL" happens within her subconsciously, not consciously, she does not walk out the house and decide, “I will want him today, I won’t want him today” it occurs in her and she has no choice, similar to how we feel when Beyonce walks in, to be attracted. Now here’s the thing, there’s a whole hell of a lot of Beyonces walking around, I mean, hot bytches everywhere. But there’s only a select group of guys that create this “feeL” in women, so when she finds the guy that does it, she will tolerate all of his shortcomings like being a jerk, having no goals, having no life, etc., because no other guy creates that feeling within her.

To create that feeling? Simple. The man he should take care of his belief system and his belief system should consists of and be filled to the brim with beliefs that he is superior, the prize, the “man,” "the shyt," etc. He does not really have to BE THAT WAY, but just belief that he is superior than everybody or better than everybody. Now keep in mind, the guy does not “think” this consciously, it has been programmed into him over a period of time, and its in his subconscious mind, which this part of the mind basically decides where we go and don’t go in life. It’s this belief that the guy has programmed into his core being, without really trying or doing anything, that is what makes him get laid constantly.

Work out? Lol, if you want, that doesn’t mean women will want you.

Improve confidence? Lol, I know a lot of confident, ****y guys who don’t get laid at all.

Read more articles? Yeah, waste your time.

Become a Don Juan? Wtf is that?

You have to re-program your belief system consciously, then its your SUBCONSCIOUS that gets you women, not your conscious techniques and tactics. When these beliefs are inside of you, all you literally got to do is show up and be yourself. The beliefs you have create that “feeL” in the women without her knowing why and without you knowing why, and she wants your azz. Have you ever wondered, when you have pvssy why more pvssy wants you? Basically when we are out with an attractive woman we begin forming the beliefs of “I am the shyt” and other women get that “feeL” when they see you.

I discovered this, because I went through a period of trying to find out why I would succeed one day and fail badly the next. I am programming myself consistently now, and getting laid even more.

Conclusion on women fellows, re-program yourself. You have to do it consistently, get a tape recorder and play it over and over, over and over, over and over, over and over, over and over....eventually, you form those beliefs. Now, what’s left to do? Well, there’s a party going on every weekend so ummmmmmmmm, ....let’s go get laid like we were made to do!

Peace to everyone and now enjoy women and enjoy your sex life. And wrap the fvck up(trogan)!

-DonJuanForever and Forever

 

[Bvbidd]

So you have to think your superior to everybody.. but you said hat has nothing to do with being ****y.

What?

Don Juan Forever why write up this bull****? So if a 500 pound guy thinks he's greater than everybody he will create feelings of lust in all women. I don't think so.

What you really mean is that beleif of the world is yours, you know the way you talk when you don't give a ****, like your talking to some random kid, the jokes the teasing all comes out naturally, and she'll want you.

But don't think the whole matter part does not work on the women side too. They find guys hot too. They just have a passive personality, that does not mean they don't want hot looking guys.

 

[Dante3214]

I think he has a great point.


Ok, more than a point.


Really, he's right, I'd know.

People know what you're feeling sometimes even if you are consciously changing your body language to say that you're "ok".

I used to be social phobic, and trust me, people sense these things it seems.



If you really believe without a doubt in your mind, that you are great, you will never have any problems socially because your mind will be clear enough to let it flow, trust me.

 

[Docs]

So if a 500 pound guy thinks he's greater than everybody he will create feelings of lust in all women.

It's called the air of superiority. Would you try messing with a 500lb guy if you know he'll flatten you? I wouldn't know that answer, but the same goes with the 110lb ****y guy. If he's got friends, you'd be plain stupid to mess with authority.

Tell me how it goes if you try though.

 

[Bvbidd]

Yeah not talking about feeling threatend, talking about feeling lust.

They are obviously diffrent things, but really what makes them diffrent?

This is the confusing part when people say looks don't matter because they most obviously do in the attracting part of it, not just the social. Or then all women are secretly attracted to any nasty looking homeless 67 year old mother****er who thinks he's god. And the women just hide the fact their getting wet? Yeah ****ing right.

This is why, I feel it still all comes down to looks for women too.

Not saying girls don't feel anything because they do, but I don't think what they feel as to do with attraction.. more just the feelings are what they use to justify ****ing at the time. Not actually what gets em horny in the first place.

 

[Visceral]

Has anyone else, when they try to reprogram themselves, had their brains reject the new programming because it wasn't supported by reality?

Whenever I try to change what I think about myself, work, women, and life in general, I run into resistance which centers around the fact that I don't see any evidence that what I'm trying to make myself think is true.

If you were in this situation and got around it, please tell me what you did.

 

[Potbelly]

uhhhh yeah this is bullsh1t. I think I'm going to stick with the working out and improving my physical image. With a physical and real tangible improvement I can see, an inner change will be felt as well, automatically. However, this does not work the other way around. Deluding yourself into thinking you're the sh1t does close to nothing. If you have no inherent value as a person, but you and only you think so, then it means nothing. Don't fool yourself and take the easy way out.

 

[Docs]

You prove it to your brain.

We are naturally programmed to accept one system, and deny all others. You have been brought up and slipped into many different systems and you're accustommed to it all. Change to one system will throw many systems out of balance.

ie) If you wake up at 8am, and decide that you want to wake up at 7am because lets say your ride time changed, your body will be very reluctant to adpat to it at first. It's when it's ESSENTIAL that the body cooperates (ie, job, school (....), life) that it most quickly adpats.

If it's at leisure, it's harder.

Onto the real world now. Lets say you're a nice guy, and you want to reprogram yourself to be slightly ****y. That goes against about 7 things about being a nice, sensitive guy right? Our mind will surely reject the idea on account of it being a un-plasiable idea by experience. It doesn't matter if everyone around you is ****y and it works, your body has never experienced it for itself, so it discounts the idea.

It's when it's attempted out of force, that it starts to say 'hey, this isn't so bad..', and after repeat attempts to do this new activity, the body starts to adjust, or reprogram as you wish.

It's like going bungie jumping when you've never had your feet higher then 3 feet off the ground. You're scared like a little kid, but once you force yourself to do it and it's over, you got that WOW feeling inside of you, and that's how it's done.

And you may do it again.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

hey you know how napolen failed to win his wars?? to much confidence, the same things happen to men who are like this over and over again- yeas, have confidence, but you must have a inner game to start with, what i am saying is, if you are taking your exams this year, and if you believe you can do 100% but you dont work for it, you wont get the 100%, get me, so this guy is wrong, you must work and improve your self first, then your confidence comes from having a successful innergame.
This guy is bullsht.

 

[Docs]

hey you know how napolen failed to win his wars?? to much confidence

No, he didn't think his plan though. Hitler did the same damn thing, but he wasn't even paying attention to the war at that moment.

 

[il_duce]

Good post. I agree 100%

First of all, don't ever believe that you need to "improve yourself first" before getting women. Get the silly idea out of your head that you need to be "perfect" to attract women. That is utter BS. Nobody is perfect, and nobody is "better" than anybody else. Look, being attractive physically definitely helps attract girls. But it's not like you need to be good looking, or that you need to be ________(fill in the blank), in order to attract women. Good looking people are not inherently better than anyone else. YOU DON'T NEED TO BE "X", TO VALUE YOURSELF AS A PERSON!! Just accept yourself the way you are, right now.

The truth of it is, we are all equal. WE ARE ALL "THE SH!T". Some people just have more trouble believing it than others. But when you start believing this, things will change for the better.

I'm not saying you should never improve yourself. I strongly encourage you to stay in shape, to get better clothes, etc. etc. But the key is to accept yourself NOW. Stop telling yourself, "Oh, I will accept myself once I'm 180lbs. with 7% bodyfat" or "I will be confident once I have a higher paying job". Stop ****ing delaying it. Just accept yourself, now and always, and everyone else will accept you as well. Accepting yourself and being 100% comfortable in your own skin is the most attractive quality you can display to anyone else. The more you like yourself, the more other people will like you in return. The world is your mirror.