"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Michael Jordan Approach

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In MJ's new book (Driven from within) he said in every game he never worried about taking a shot because he knew that after all the work he put in during practice during the week, during the game he knew after he shot the ball it was going to go in or it was not going to go in, therefore as long as he put in his work during the week it made no sense to worry about it in da game.

Dating is the same way, the ball will go in or it will miss (there is no other options).
She will like you or she wont like you.
She will say yes or she will say no.

And the only way to find out iz to shot the ball.


Da kingz in da building!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's a very good way of looking at it. =)
 

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True. Like the age old idiom: Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The more approaches the better you % will have. I know this is easier said than done and I still have problems making an initial approach but if you belive in the law of averages and have faith in your game you will succeed.
 

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after he shot the ball it was going to go in or it was not going to go in
<irony>Wow great philosophy...</irony>
That's not MJ's secret. His secret is simpy hard work. He commited himself completely to playing basketball and never gave up. He never complained he's too tired, or doesn't have motivation. He got on the path and never got off of it (well he got off only to play golf but that's another story).
 

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He has also misssed 1000s of shots but still hes great ;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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