"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Michael Jordan Approach

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In MJ's new book (Driven from within) he said in every game he never worried about taking a shot because he knew that after all the work he put in during practice during the week, during the game he knew after he shot the ball it was going to go in or it was not going to go in, therefore as long as he put in his work during the week it made no sense to worry about it in da game.

Dating is the same way, the ball will go in or it will miss (there is no other options).
She will like you or she wont like you.
She will say yes or she will say no.

And the only way to find out iz to shot the ball.


Da kingz in da building!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's a very good way of looking at it. =)
 

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True. Like the age old idiom: Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The more approaches the better you % will have. I know this is easier said than done and I still have problems making an initial approach but if you belive in the law of averages and have faith in your game you will succeed.
 

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after he shot the ball it was going to go in or it was not going to go in
<irony>Wow great philosophy...</irony>
That's not MJ's secret. His secret is simpy hard work. He commited himself completely to playing basketball and never gave up. He never complained he's too tired, or doesn't have motivation. He got on the path and never got off of it (well he got off only to play golf but that's another story).
 

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He has also misssed 1000s of shots but still hes great ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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