The Matrix....

[ItsOnNow]

I know a million posts of this have been posted on here,but I had some questions. I have a general idea of what it is,over feminization of men,due to various political/social conditionings. Have I ever been trapped in it? Well,I think yes and no.

I never saw myself as feminine,but yet,I'm not exactly "a master don juan" either. Yeah yeah,went through some typical,crush,if only she would just like me,etc. But on a larger scale,the matirx is that whole concept of group think,i.e follow everyone else so I don't get left out,agree with everyone else not to look like a fool,etc.

I mean,you can't blame people for wanting to belong,but to what extent? I mean,I have always had a tendency to see people as just followers,always having to keep up with joneses,always having to have the latest and greatest this that and the other thing.

I myself have never felt that urge. Maybe when I was a young child and had to have the latest toy. But,it has got me thinking,where do I stand,who Am I,what are my values,am I a leader,do I want to be a leader,am i a good and proper man?,etc.

 

[MooseGod]

Good post (needs paragraph breaks though...) Sounds like you're catching on--DJism isn't just about picking up girls, it's about living life for YOU and on YOUR own terms.

 

[ItsOnNow]

I know,I think I have always lived life on my own terms. But one part that has always bothered me,is this constant feelings of depression,isolation,and loneliness,and feelings of unatractiveness,unworthyness,and long periods of time w/o sex or seeing someone.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

The matrix is EVERYWHERE!!! Be carefull or it will control you!

 

[ItsOnNow]

But how do I avoid it controlling me? And how do I do it without coming off as a paranoid lunatic?

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

I made a thread about this recently
Fight The Matrix: Wisdom For Guys Of All Ages!

"But how do I avoid it controlling me? "
are you talking to the matrix as to how it relates to this forum? (the femnist agenda and anti-male conspiracy). A simple definition of it is the conspiracy to emasculate men and feminize society. There are things you can do such as
1) be your own man: find hobbies, a job and career you like. A man's job is his backbone, don't make women your backbone and your goal in life. Women are attracted to men that know what they're doing and have a purpose. You don't have to have a career yet (if you're a young guy) just make sure you are always "up to something" (hobbies etc) rather than being a computer nerd and boring.
2) Learn to recognize feminine/inverted women: don't put yourself through the trouble of looking for b|tches and hoes. Instead find high quality girls that are not controlled by the matrix. Find yourself girls that will smile when you talk to them for the first time rather than ones that will be on their shield and has a look on her face wanting you to go to hell for talking to her.

good, simple advice from Henry Makow to keep you out of trouble, from the article Politically Incorrect Advice for Young Men

2. Stop listening to the media, your peer group or parents. "Trust thy self," Emerson says in Self Reliance (1841) "Whoso would be a man, must be a nonconformist." What are your instincts telling you? For example, I always knew I wanted to rule my own roost but feminism prohibited this. Obey your instincts.

3. Make work (not women) your passion. Work is the backbone of a man. Men gain self-confidence from performing a task well, and receiving reward and recognition. Women will try to come between a man and his work but don't let them. Don't let anyone or anything thwart your gift. Women do not respect men who make them their first priority. Your work will keep you on course and help you avoid temptation.

4. Our society makes sex, love and female beauty into a phony religion in order to distract and manipulate us. Sex and beauty soon become tedious. The magic ends. Real love develops over a long period of time and is based on trust and caring.

5. Do not put beautiful women on a pedestal. They are flawed like everyone else. They are more trouble because of their sense of entitlement. Do not marry someone based on sexual infatuation. I recount this error in my book "A Long Way to go for a Date." Never show weakness. In courtship, don't appear eager. Women interpret this as weakness. Keep your dignity. Nothing earns her respect quicker than rejection. Men think they will be loved for their sterling qualities. This is not so. Women are looking for men who make them feel secure. They want men who exude confidence. If you're insecure, remember there are many woman more insecure than you.

8. Do not marry a woman who doesn't make you and her family her first priority. Do you want to share your wife with her boss? If you have an aim in life, why would you marry someone who doesn't support it? Or has a competing agenda? In the marketplace of love, men have the power. Our fertility lasts three times as long as theirs. We are the buyers. There are plenty of fine women, especially if we look abroad.

9. Real women are self-effacing. They put their husbands and their children before themselves. Avoid women who compete, control, criticize or complain (the 4 c's). Avoid women who are overachievers. Don't get hung up on unavailable women. They're aren't as special as you think. Choose a wife who complements you and is a good companion. Choose one who will be a good mother.

10. Being possessive is natural. A man wants to possess a woman. Women want to be possessed. In the act of love, we say a man "possesses" a woman. Total love equals total possession. This is not the same as domination. It is a partnership based on mutual trust and love.

 

[ItsOnNow]

Yeah. That and making sure I don't just go along with everyone else. I can say what I want,say How I feel about something,say when I am pissed off,Not always having to have what everyone else haves. And what is the anti-male conspiracy again exactly?