"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SuavePlaya

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Paradigm Artisan said:
Inner game is the only really important part of this community as far as I'm concerned. They put in ideas into your head, that allows YOU to unleash the man within. This is good, this can really help ones life. But it isn't neccesarry.
Okay I was reading your post until I got up to this part and stopped reading it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Paradigm Artisan said:
My point is; almost all if not all of these techniques are modeled after men, real men, not other types of male. Or invented from the action a man would take. So you are learning how to act like a man. Just putting on a mask so females will think that he is a man and not the true male/half man he is. But once again, sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a chicken.
There is so much truth on that one statement!! Only trouble is, most guys will not choose the path that leads to real manhood, but will instead choose gimmicks and tricks that will get them instant results.

Stop chasing skirts and start chasing your dreams. Then and only then skirts will chase you!!
 

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Excellent post. Very similar information to Pook's The Secret of The Jerk.
 

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Working out and exercising is good no doubt, I work out 5-6 times a week and play basketball and other competitive sports on the side all the time. I see great results with my body. I'm cut and athletic. However, I have yet to get the "testosterone boost of energy" you guys are talking about. Most of the time after a workout I just want to take a fvckin nap.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bump for an awesome post.
 

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The Pook is strong in you, young Don Juan.
 

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so get more sleep. Read THE FOUR HOUR BODY, by Tim Ferriss. the right supplements and food, at the RIGHT TIME, are important. So is having 1 or more CONSUMING hobbies.
 
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