The Married Woman

[NubianAdam]

Good Morning Everyone:
I’m new to this community and have been learning a lot about the game of seduction recently. In fact I just ordered the Art of Seduction, and should be getting it this week. Also I’ve been researching several forums about seducing women. Honestly I can see I’ve been taught wrong all my life; so I’m glad to finally get the truth about myself and the truth about women.

Here’s my question and situation: The is is a co-worker I would like to become sexual with. Moreover she is married with 3 kids. However, I have had some success with her in regards to being able to feel her up on her butt when we are alone in certain places at work, and I did get a small kiss one day when she dropped me off at the bus stop after work. She has even been over at my place—but nothing happened. She is a black female Aries from the Caribbean. And we talk on the phone for hours almost everyday when her husband is at work. We both work at night. She laughs all the time and she actually expressed interest in me first by always bumping into me or rubbing up against me like a cat. She is a bold and controlling type, but she also has a soft side: she brought me dinner that she cooked before coming to work one day.

My problem is that I can’t close her on getting her to sleep with me. We talk about sexual stuff all the time, but she never has spoken of personal experiences. Honestly, I think she is a player herself that likes to play close to fire, but never with fire. How do I increase her interest level, trust, and etc, to get her to want to come over again, and this time make something happen?

Any help would be appreciate?

NA

 

[Evangenlion]

Welcome.

I don't really see a problem here.
Here is a few question u must answer so u can understand the situation better.

Does the husband know about u and what u guys do?
i don't think he does, which means she willing to do things behind his back. like have sex with u etc

Have u kissed her yet?
on the cheek or on the lip?
u can't suddenly jump into bed with out a foreplay,
start minor foreplay, see how she reacts to it. if she accepts it, amp it up. she accepts that, no time soon u'll be banging her.

she lets her body rub over u, she's doing it on porpuse and she knows it. next time she is doing tell her "stop, your making me horny", if she is pleased with what u just said i.e. like smiles. then its a good moment to kiss her and touch her back.

i'm still not sure the type of person u are, maybe u are the shy type or fearfull or nervious, but hey, in life u must do what needs to be done to get what u want.

(watch my grammer, i hate english)

 

[Uncle Matt]

i really like a girl i work with. we go to lunch loads and we are always flirting and messin around. the most physical we got was a kiss on the cheek at christmas and i put my hands on her hips when i snuck up behind her. i'm in your situation as i really dont know what she wants or how to proceed. anything i should look out for? i recon its just good mate but there is always hope and all that.

 

[NubianAdam]

No, the husband doesn’t know me..expect for the fact that I work with her..other than that the husband and I never met or talked. She is an very intriguing woman as she knows that I am single and she has often spoke of taking me to her island in the Caribbean and showing me the sights.

We had a quick kiss on the lips once as she was dropping me off at the bus station—I told her it was the least she could do for a favor I did for her earlier. I told her that I want a real kiss, but she declined saying that she “not really a touchy feely person” But at the same time she always touching (hitting) me and always talking to me. She always call me every day, maybe 2-3 times a day.

Yeah, I am the shy type and kind of nervous about amping the physical things. The most I’ve been able to do is feel on her butt with no resistance when we are in certain locations..but if we are in the elevator, she DOES resist. Sometimes I think I’m getting mixed signals.

Anyway, I do think she is a flirt and a player herself, but the main thing I want to see how far I can seduce her. When I was getting info about what she values and likes, she mentioned that she likes shopping for a man, and she has made suggestions about what type of things I need for my apartment which I just moved into. So I’m going to give her $100 to go shopping for me as a challenge to her to se what she can do clothes wise.

 

[Evangenlion]

it looks like your bordering the lines of sexual tense relationship to friend zoning.

have u read the DJ bible, the link is here http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

its free and comes with some other good reads. i think, i haven't read it, but i know its good.
search for some of pook's post for confidence.
search about confidence.
apply them, and i mean apply them

after u read it follow these steps.
amp the physical, even if she might not like it, she will not run away from u for doing it, cus you are friends.

lower your interest level, sounds to u your supplicating her to much.

make her jealous, tell her you have an interest in another girl and refuse her help if she offers it.

she let u touch her butt, in private, but not in near public places.
so only be physical when u two are alone in your new apartment.

lose the nerves and the shyiness, its a must, not for this girl, for yourself as a person.

work for it man.

do u have a pic of her? would like to see her.

 

[Vibe]

I don't have much to say on this except, I would not say "Stop, you're making me horny" when she rubs up on you. That will just show her that she's won you over. What you need to do is subtly suggest that she's making you horny with body language. Saying it outright like that is attractive to a man, NOT a woman.

From the way you described your situation, it seems like you should employ the gunwitch method. That's at:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46286&

I think that is perfect for this woman. You need to isolate her and bring her into a sexual state and her p*ssy will be like drawn butter.

Combine this with a little c/f and I think you'll be good to go. But whatever you do, DON'T say it outright like that. You can talk dirty when the sexual doorway has been opened but probably not before.

~vibe~