"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The march to the androgynous and beyond: five year old boy lives as girl

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amohield said:
Do you feel this is a valid disorder? Or do you feel that this is society-produced?
Extremely valid. Trannies have existed for a long time. Mostly in private. Society has just gotten more accepting. Which is fine in my opinion.

But not for a 5 year old.

I know that if I did this as at that age my dad would just whoop my *ss and that'd be the end of that.
I've known a couple trannies in my time. Most of them were hit alot when they were transitioning. Really only served to strengthen their resolve to live as a women and weaken their relationship with their family. Many of them ended up in prostitution, drugs, suicide, etc.
 

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Well, if it's a valid disorder, then why should it matter whether s/he is five or fifty?
 

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amohield said:
Well, if it's a valid disorder, then why should it matter whether s/he is five or fifty?
At 5 you haven't gone through puberty, learned about sex or sexual organs, are prone to make childish and silly decisions. At older ages hopefully you know better, and you've made your decision using life experience and logic.

When I was young I thought I was batman, but when I was older I obviously knew I wasn't. Likewise a 5 year-old thinking he is a tranny versus a 20 year old thinking he is a tranny is very different.
 
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