"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Manual

Polish Rifle

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Just finished reading The Manual by W.Anton. The book actually came to me with strong recommendation, after I could only get halfway through The Game. I couldn't finish that book because I didn't agree with the methods of peacocking, negging and it just came across as a numbers game to me.

The Manual was described to me as a more principled approach that focuses on character and the psychology of a woman's mind. I just finished the book and was wondering if anybody on this forum had read it and their thoughts on it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Black Widow Void

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Sounds interesting. I haven't heard about this. I'm surprised that no one else has commented.
 

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I don't know if it would appeal to everybody on here. Just like athletes, we all have different styles while trying to achieve the same goal. The book doesn't go into things like fashion, text game, and status, as it just says those things are clearly secondary to confidence, charm and responsibility.
 

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When I thought I cared if I had a woman in my life, I read "the Game". Since I've come to realize it really doesn't matter if I do or not. AND i can focus on what makes ME happy....I probably won't read this one.
 
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