playerone
Senior Don Juan
He has been over-thinking, over-analyzing his and her every move. "What did i say just now, did i say it right." "What's the best way to reply this text." Replaying in his own mind were the images of what they did, and he was constantly self-reflecting on it. Why does he think so much? It's as though women meant everything to him. Deep inside, he knows he doesn't care. But sadly, the mind was too powerful. All that over-thinking and over-analyzing took over.
Finally, over time, he realised what he constantly did, was reminding himself to be a Man. He thought to himself, "It's like Jesus asking himself, what would Jesus do." All this while, he had been telling himself what a Man would do, think, and feel. He would come to realise that he had already became that Man. As he continues having fun talking to women, the questions became fewer and if there were any, they were dumb and straightforward.
It's in him. He's becoming natural at it. His mind was messing with him big time, but it had to pay off someday. He became stronger. With doubts in his mind, he didn't stay put and take a shot at going insane. He did his homework, he talked to new women, asked them out, had fun, while seeking out his problems at the same time. He finally realised, "What you say does not matter, it's how you see it." If you don't put focus on the women, what you say to them aren't really important. Let your inner game speak. Let your actions talk.
The Man never settles for anyone beneath his standards. Those would either be his friends or nothing. Not even for sex. He is patient when it comes to women. He'd take his time, and only act when he meets a woman he finds interesting. It's not about having a pretty face or a crazy figure. It's finding a woman who fits in your life. That's the main criteria. Most of the time, he'll talk on the phone with a woman, then proceed to ask her out. He likes it this way, or is maybe even used to it. But the woman doesn't comply. She would prefer texting, instant messaging, but no talking over the phone. He says fine, he'll text, and then ask her out. If she replies with anything but yes, he would have none of it.
He wouldn't go out of his way for any particular woman. Not even if she's super interesting to him. She must fit in his life. Women are dispensable, but not his life. He has his family, friends, hobbies, and job. He knows that without a woman, he's still happy and fun. When he meets a woman he's interested in, he shows patience. He knows the outcome. It's like playing poker and you get a flush with the first 3 cards shown. You don't go "ALL IN". Nobody would "CALL", and you win your own money back. Raise the stakes a little, get everyone to call enough, then put more money on it.
Be the Man.
Finally, over time, he realised what he constantly did, was reminding himself to be a Man. He thought to himself, "It's like Jesus asking himself, what would Jesus do." All this while, he had been telling himself what a Man would do, think, and feel. He would come to realise that he had already became that Man. As he continues having fun talking to women, the questions became fewer and if there were any, they were dumb and straightforward.
It's in him. He's becoming natural at it. His mind was messing with him big time, but it had to pay off someday. He became stronger. With doubts in his mind, he didn't stay put and take a shot at going insane. He did his homework, he talked to new women, asked them out, had fun, while seeking out his problems at the same time. He finally realised, "What you say does not matter, it's how you see it." If you don't put focus on the women, what you say to them aren't really important. Let your inner game speak. Let your actions talk.
The Man never settles for anyone beneath his standards. Those would either be his friends or nothing. Not even for sex. He is patient when it comes to women. He'd take his time, and only act when he meets a woman he finds interesting. It's not about having a pretty face or a crazy figure. It's finding a woman who fits in your life. That's the main criteria. Most of the time, he'll talk on the phone with a woman, then proceed to ask her out. He likes it this way, or is maybe even used to it. But the woman doesn't comply. She would prefer texting, instant messaging, but no talking over the phone. He says fine, he'll text, and then ask her out. If she replies with anything but yes, he would have none of it.
He wouldn't go out of his way for any particular woman. Not even if she's super interesting to him. She must fit in his life. Women are dispensable, but not his life. He has his family, friends, hobbies, and job. He knows that without a woman, he's still happy and fun. When he meets a woman he's interested in, he shows patience. He knows the outcome. It's like playing poker and you get a flush with the first 3 cards shown. You don't go "ALL IN". Nobody would "CALL", and you win your own money back. Raise the stakes a little, get everyone to call enough, then put more money on it.
Be the Man.
