"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Man With The Most Money Wins - It's Official!

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You DJ's can work on your chests and pecs. You can wear funky hats. You can be as ****y as you want to be...BUT...the dude who can buy girls clothes will always be first place in her heart. I would say this is even more true in non-American countries. That's right. They like clothing more than sex.

Less focus on your pecs and more focus on making more MONEY than the dudes around you. That will turn girls on. Reason why leaving for a poor country with beautiful girls is so appealing.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070206/od_nm/life_clothes_dc
Women on average say they would be willing to give up sex for 15 months for a closet full of new apparel, with 2 percent ready to abstain from sex for three years in exchange for new duds, according to a new survey of about 1,000 women in 10 U.S. cities.

Sixty-one percent of women polled said it would be worse to lose their favorite article of clothing than give up sex for a month.


I can only imagine the numbers in other parts of the world. I am thinking that 85% of Ukraine girls I know wouldn't mind remaining virgins for the rest of their lives if they could have a new wardrobe every six months. Hate to break that to you studs.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yahoo says its so, so it must be true.
 

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What women say they* want and what women actually want are two completely different things.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I saw this episode of MTV's 'True Life' - this millionaire guy was 50 something year old with a 20 something year old model for a girlfriend - and he totally owned her. Just treated her like his biatch. 'hey go make me a pizza.' So hilarious.

My feeling is that this thread is the truth. It becomes even more true as you get older.
 

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It is the truth. Money makes the world go round. Make mo' bucks! $$$
 

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Money helps. No question about it.

Though there is one thing to consider, atleast for me. If I'm with a girl I care about, I want her to care about me for reasons other then money.

If however I'm out to just get some @$$, then the wallet comes out :)
 

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Good job on getting brainwashed by the media to supplicate to your fancy's every whim :rolleyes: Only give gifts to women when they deserve a gift.
 

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Only give gifts to women when they deserve a gift.
Or if you're really horny, and need to speed up the process... Seriously, dropping a $100 tip to a bartender is usually a really good DHV...and get's you served ALOT faster.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Create Reality said:
Good job on getting brainwashed by the media to supplicate to your fancy's every whim :rolleyes: Only give gifts to women when they deserve a gift.
This is exactly what the American media doesn't want to print. You boys have been brainwashed to think that females have high sex drives. That every girl feels the way you do about sex. She just doesn't know it yet. You get that from all the stories in the American media about how females have had their sex drives repressed by the evil male. Uh, NEWSFLASH! Most clean girls (not middle-aged divorced sluts that most of you guys like) get off on shopping. That excites them more than the idea of you exposing yourself on some stupid webcam.

I have come to a sad conclusion. The reason American girls hang around gay boys (something that is not common in most countries) is because the straight American guy is just plain creepy. Yes, creepy. There is nothing creepier than a guy who thinks that the random girl is going to be turned on by the sight of his abs. That pretty much sums up every American dude. And quit acting so stupid and goofy around girls. You might think that being ****y and silly is a turn on, but it isn't! It is just plain annoying.
 

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This is exactly what the American media doesn't want to print. You boys have been brainwashed to think that females have high sex drives. That every girl feels the way you do about sex. She just doesn't know it yet. You get that from all the stories in the American media about how females have had their sex drives repressed by the evil male.
Spoken like a virgin.

Many of the girls I've been with have higher sex drives than I do. I know this from personal experience, not the media or random KBJs.
 

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Define WINS.

Sounds like a guy would end up with a woman like Anna Nicole, Bonnie Blake or Jenny Mills Mccartney who ends up trying to take your fortune. WOO HOO, SIGN ME UP FOR A DATE WITH A CHICK LIKE THAT!!!! :woo:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the 50 year old rich guy who is dating a 20 year old model wins, despite whether or not she is a gold digger. a guy like that is smart enough to watch out for people who want to take his money so it doesn't phase him if he occasionally gets with a gold digger. meanwhile, he's an old dude that's having a lot of sex with hot young girls.
 

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nonchalant said:
the 50 year old rich guy who is dating a 20 year old model wins, despite whether or not she is a gold digger. a guy like that is smart enough to watch out for people who want to take his money so it doesn't phase him if he occasionally gets with a gold digger. meanwhile, he's an old dude that's having a lot of sex with hot young girls.
Personally I think that if you worked long and hard to build an amount of wealth, I wouldn't want to waste it on trying to impress some naive teenie bopper who's young enough to be my daughter. I'd be living a sad life if that's all I have to look forward to.
 

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Who says the 50 year old millionaire's main focus is to impress 20 year old models? They are just incidental entertainment that he amuses himself while he works on his next big move.
 

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Who says the 50 year old millionaire's main focus is to impress 20 year old models? They are just incidental entertainment that he amuses himself while he works on his next big move.
Most models are much younger than 20 these days. 20 is an old lady age in the fashion industry.
 

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sparky0000 said:
This is exactly what the American media doesn't want to print. You boys have been brainwashed to think that females have high sex drives. That every girl feels the way you do about sex. She just doesn't know it yet. You get that from all the stories in the American media about how females have had their sex drives repressed by the evil male. Uh, NEWSFLASH! Most clean girls (not middle-aged divorced sluts that most of you guys like) get off on shopping. That excites them more than the idea of you exposing yourself on some stupid webcam.

I have come to a sad conclusion. The reason American girls hang around gay boys (something that is not common in most countries) is because the straight American guy is just plain creepy. Yes, creepy. There is nothing creepier than a guy who thinks that the random girl is going to be turned on by the sight of his abs. That pretty much sums up every American dude. And quit acting so stupid and goofy around girls. You might think that being ****y and silly is a turn on, but it isn't! It is just plain annoying.
Uh, you're joking, right? I think you missed the 97-page hor thread: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=5926

I know from personal experience, women are damn horny.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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