"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The MAN Thread

Kumar

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Desdinova said:
Okay people, what are the things you own or do that show you are a MAN? You know, the things that say "I'm a powerful, strong male being", and the things that smell of testosterone and draw women from a 100 mile radius.

For me, it's working on my 4x4, my house, using my chainsaw and power tools.
:crackup:

1. I work out everyday. I look good, really good.
2. I keep my mind fed with good ideas and concepts.
3. I have fun, I love having fun. I am very active.
4. I have every tool known to man and know how to use them.
5. I also know how to use technology.
6. I am a Man of Principle.
7. I know martial arts and can kick your ass if the need arises that I must defend myself.
8. I have served my country and proud of it, regarless of the current political ideology.
9. I can cook and have taken care of my siblings.
10. I respect myself and others.

I could go on and on, but you get the picture.

K
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Latinoman said:
Listen...sweetie... ;)

Of course, I would never give her "permission" to make her own decisions. She is an adult and never will be my property. Instead, I might either encourage or discourage her.
Snookems, this is where I am a tad different. I do ask his permission in new situations, how else would I know if he approved or not. I would rather ask his permission then ask for forgiveness any day of the week.


Latinoman said:
I would never send her to a website that is full of men. Nothing to do with insecurity or jealousy. My experience is that this is asking for trouble. It is about what is necessary for the relationship to grow and about respect. But at the end...it comes down to what makes ME happy. And what makes HER happy.
He would never be threatened by another and we have very strong trust. Should he not want me to post or read, he'd say it in a heartbeat.

I was only going to post a quick comment expressing that "THINGS" don't make the man, the MAN makes the man. But then I got on a roll boasting and gragging about him, which I could do for hours.

Latinoman said:
But...make not mistake about one thing: I do consider you a valuable poster in this Message Board and I respect you as such.
Same goes for you sir. Don't ever hesitate to keep me in line!

-pix
 

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Bad_Lil'Pixie said:
Snookems, this is where I am a tad different. I do ask his permission in new situations, how else would I know if he approved or not. I would rather ask his permission then ask for forgiveness any day of the week.
-pix
Heh, heh, heh,

Ok boys and girls pay attention!

The political correct lie is that women are no longer men's property.

You will be a fool if you believe the lie. You will suffer tremendously if you act on that belief.

Why?

Because women still "FEEL" the need to belong to a man. They still feel the need to be the property of a man. Yes, the laws may say otherwise, but their feelings will still rule them.

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Kumar said:
Heh, heh, heh,

Ok boys and girls pay attention!

The political correct lie is that women are no longer men's property.

You will be a fool if you believe the lie. You will suffer tremendously if you act on that belief.

Why?

Because women still "FEEL" the need to belong to a man. They still feel the need to be the property of a man. Yes, the laws may say otherwise, but their feelings will still rule them.

K
I swear English is my first language, really it is....

It is all about respect, not ownership.

Should I be asked to host a nightie party, in our home, I would WANT TO ASK my husband his opinion. It would involve him, it would take an evening away from us. If I did not do this, if I just agreed to host the party, he may feel his opinion does not matter to me, he may feel that I did not care if he was put out or not. This would be rude and hurtful to him.

Now, if I were rude and hurtful Mr Pix would in no way mince words to tell me that I was just that and I would want to apologize for not being very honorbale of his opinion.

See, by simply thinking of him BEFORE acting, it saves a lot of grief and hurt.

AND, most importantly Kumar, I only speak for me, not all women or women in general.

Now, everyone BACK ON TOPIC, Kumar, what gives you that "MANLY" feeling???
 

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Snookems, this is where I am a tad different. I do ask his permission in new situations, how else would I know if he approved or not. I would rather ask his permission then ask for forgiveness any day of the week.

What about instead of asking for "permission" you ask for his "opinion" or his "feelings"? That way he will tell you his opinion or feelings on the issue...and you STILL have the power to make your own decisions.

I am 100% certain that you would do whatever is right and fair. But the beauty of this is that you would feel that you were empowered and trusted to make that decision on your own.


I was only going to post a quick comment expressing that "THINGS" don't make the man, the MAN makes the man.

And I would have agreed 100% with you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bad_Lil'Pixie said:
Now, everyone BACK ON TOPIC, Kumar, what gives you that "MANLY" feeling???
Read my previous post ^ #21

:crackup:

Lil Pix, you belong baby, you belong. I am sure Mr. Pix is tha Man, so you are his dirty lil s1ut.

K
 

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It is all about respect, not ownership.

Should I be asked to host a nightie party, in our home, I would WANT TO ASK my husband his opinion. It would involve him, it would take an evening away from us. If I did not do this, if I just agreed to host the party, he may feel his opinion does not matter to me, he may feel that I did not care if he was put out or not. This would be rude and hurtful to him.


EXCELLENT point! Now we agree 100%.
 

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WesCottII said:
I play rugby.

End of.
You might also wear a skirt.

My point is...lot of men that wear skirts (Scotland) also play rugby.
 

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Latinoman said:
You might also wear a skirt.

My point is...lot of men that wear skirts (Scotland) also play rugby.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Here we will need the weedwhacker to trim those legs. :crackup: :crackup:

K
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WesCottII said:
Fourthly, anyone here could do their "manly" activity of choice whilst wearing a skirt, but why to single me out.
Come on Wes, just some friendly banter.

Jeez... where is the humor?

:crackup:

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- I can piss my name in the snow!

- I can drink a sixpack in 21 seconds flat (no ****, a buddy timed me once!! Disclaimer... strong urges to vomit afterwards)

- I can open a beerbottle with my teeth (also strip wires, unhook brahs, open beer cans, and basically anything for which i'd need a third hand)

- I can yell loud enough to make someone across a busy street hear me

- I can corner a car properly without screaming. I can park without breaking sweat...

- Before i started eating more healthy... i could clear any room with a single fart.

- I know how to fix a car

- I can use big noisy powertools effectively.

- I'm not afraid of a running, exhaustless V-8

- I have a tatoo and a couple cool looking scars aswell

- I dont freak out when someone pokes a needle in me

- I don't freak out when someone in my close proximity is bleeding badly

- I don't get random headaches right before sex, and if i do, i still want to have sex

- I think flowers look best alive in the yard instead of dead in a vase

- I'm not afraid of cows, horses, dogs and other farm animals/pets

- I hate cats, especially mean furry ones

- I hate small yappy dogs

- I have no issues with being naked in a group shower. I have no issues with sleeping naked, i have no issues with getting out of bed buttnaked if some chick i barely know happens to wake me up.

- I can go to a department store and tell the chicks there "make me look good" and they actually DO

- I can shave, fix my hair and get ready for a night out all without using a mirror

- I can smoke a cigar without looking sleazy

- When/if i start balding i can shave my head and look cool

- I still feel like sex when exhausted, sick, drunk, etc

- I can just walk into my stylists shop and tell him "have your way with it", without thinking about it for 2 months
 

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Socialreject said:
- I can piss my name in the snow!

- I can drink a sixpack in 21 seconds flat (no ****, a buddy timed me once!! Disclaimer... strong urges to vomit afterwards)

- I can open a beerbottle with my teeth (also strip wires, unhook brahs, open beer cans, and basically anything for which i'd need a third hand)

- I can yell loud enough to make someone across a busy street hear me

- I can corner a car properly without screaming. I can park without breaking sweat...

- Before i started eating more healthy... i could clear any room with a single fart.

- I know how to fix a car

- I can use big noisy powertools effectively.

- I'm not afraid of a running, exhaustless V-8

- I have a tatoo and a couple cool looking scars aswell

- I dont freak out when someone pokes a needle in me

- I don't freak out when someone in my close proximity is bleeding badly

- I don't get random headaches right before sex, and if i do, i still want to have sex

- I think flowers look best alive in the yard instead of dead in a vase

- I'm not afraid of cows, horses, dogs and other farm animals/pets

- I hate cats, especially mean furry ones

- I hate small yappy dogs

- I have no issues with being naked in a group shower. I have no issues with sleeping naked, i have no issues with getting out of bed buttnaked if some chick i barely know happens to wake me up.

- I can go to a department store and tell the chicks there "make me look good" and they actually DO

- I can shave, fix my hair and get ready for a night out all without using a mirror

- I can smoke a cigar without looking sleazy

- When/if i start balding i can shave my head and look cool

- I still feel like sex when exhausted, sick, drunk, etc

- I can just walk into my stylists shop and tell him "have your way with it", without thinking about it for 2 months
Hence your handle: Socialreject

My bad, just having some fun, don't be hating. :D

K
 

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My collection of Cardcaptor Sakura manga and DVDs. :p
Listening to Jpop artists such as Under17, Riyu Kosoka, I've Girls, etc. :p
Having a poster of two naked lesbian girls on my wall and not giving a crap what anyone thinks. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Socialreject said:
- I can shave, fix my hair and get ready for a night out all without using a mirror
How the hell do you that? Mirror yourself in a big bad knife?? :up:
 

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Kumar said:
Come on Wes, just some friendly banter.

Jeez... where is the humor?

:crackup:

K

Hey man, no probs, I'll laugh...when it's funny.

No offence bro.
 

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WesCottII said:
Hmm....thats wrong on so many levels.
So, you want to debate logic?

First, it's not a skirt, it's a kilt. Which, by the way, the Scots used to do battle in. Ever done battle in your manly trousers? No. Didn't think so.
I am a Gulf War I Veteran. So, to answer your question...YES, I have done battle.


Second, I'm not Scottish, as is evident from my "location"
I never said that YOU were Scottish. What I said was that Scottish people ALSO play Rugby...and wear skirts.


Third, according to your logic (that i might add, is unfounded, like me claiming "men who have beards play tennis"), every person who wears a "kilt" plays rugby?
Actually, YOU implied that every person that plays rugby is a MAN. And I implied that the analogy is incorrect. Because if we play the game of analogies, then we could stay that every person that wears a skirt is a woman. And we all know that Scottish people do both: wear a skirt and play rugby.


Fourthly, anyone here could do their "manly" activity of choice whilst wearing a skirt, but way to single me out.
Listen...another quality of being a Man: the ability to bust balls and taking it back.
 

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Not ALL Scottish people play rugby mate, not ALL Scottish people wear KILTS. It's a traditional dress worn at weddings and so forth.
Exactly!

Therefore, no every one that plays Rugby is a "man". ;)

Take it easy dude...I'm just picking on you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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