"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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1) get there attention HARD when you open. They're generally NOT IN A SOCIAL MOOD, unlike at a party, etc. So grab her attention and make her STOP and PAUSE.
2) PROJECTION. This will help the above immensely. Talk deep, from your diaphragm. Open however you want, but deep and it will work most the time.
3) proximity. Stand close to her, this is the Kino of the day. When opening fulfil point #1 by getting right in front of her and raising a hand to stop or signal het.
4) keep talking once you get her number. Get it on a high note, then continue to chat for a couple of minutes. Flakes will be.dramatically reduced.
5) plow **** tests. They get thrown up to test you are congruent to the confident guy they assume you to be, since you approached them and all.
"I have a boyfriend","do you do this to every girl?"
Laugh it off and say maybe. Te universal response.

And most important

6).CHILL.THE.HELL OUT. Daygame isnt the pulling field night game is. It also isn't as exciting. By process of elimination, it is calm. To succeed you have to be to.
STAY COOL, COLLECTED AND CASUAL.
That's not to say don't have fun or get excited. Just don't bounce around like you're on meth. Chill the hell out, approach and let value poir from you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yup it's mostly 6. If you can be a little funny, a little sexual and a little touchy, that's enough to get a girl as long as you can stay calm.

Silence is a natural part of conversation. Enjoy sexual tension and let the pauses be there.

Great advice Jaedon.
 

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For point 1, the grabbing their attention HARD part is great. The second half of your statement is not entirely true. You would be surprised to find that many women are more than willing to engage with you in conversation in plenty of venues. I understand if you approach a girl that's running on a treadmill, she probably will tell you to piss off. I directly opened a lady at the grocery store a few days ago, didn't even bother saying "Hi" or "Can I talk to you for a minute?" I just plowed in and asked "How tall are you?!" and she started telling me about herself enthusiastically and smiling LOL.

It is usually unexpected on their behalf, the shields as a result are turned off. I found that a lot of them are glad I approached them in the first place. You'll know when not to approach and when to eject immediately with experience.

Point 4...is spot on. If you get the number and eject they'll start thinking you put up a false front.

Point 6...ALWAYS.
 

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They might be on a good mood but in general you have to put them into a talkative mood. Especially with moving girls, you have to stop them before opening. O use gestures to do this, I open direct 9/10 times.
 
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