The magic words: "I really don't want sex".

[bigneil]

Tonight I had a second date with a new girl. I would never have met her if the (the S word) hadn't flaked. But when one door closes another opens. If you pay attention, you'll see that when a woman crosses you, another (and always better) woman will magically appear in your life.

Anyhow, I ran into the new girl the second time by chance but she came running over to hug me and she even remembered my birthday. We had just texted eachother earlier today, and we had great chemistry from the first moment. But during our date I told her I still loved another woman. Later when she wanted to start kissing I said "we can be close, but we probably won't have sex tonight". But I said I did think she was a really nice girl. (Fast forward two hours) I've never seen a woman be so wet in my life. She pretty much forced the event to occur.

Try this and post results here!

 

[AlexDP]

Tonight I had a second date with a new girl. I would never have met her if the (the S word) hadn't flaked. But when one door closes another opens. If you pay attention, you'll see that when a woman crosses you, another (and always better) woman will magically appear in your life.

Anyhow, I ran into the new girl the second time by chance but she came running over to hug me and she even remembered my birthday. We had just texted eachother earlier today, and we had great chemistry from the first moment. But during our date I told her I still loved another woman. Later when she wanted to start kissing I said "we can be close, but we probably won't have sex tonight". But I said I did think she was a really nice girl. (Fast forward two hours) I've never seen a woman be so wet in my life. She pretty much forced the event to occur.

Try this and post results here!

So what does this new girl do in life? BTW I thought the stripper loved you and was all over you? Guess I was right.

 

[Zarky]

the more a girl is into you the harder you have to reject her to keep her interested in you.

 

[TheMale]

I've heard of "Im not desperate for sex" game working well.

what is this game ?

one time i had a chick came to my house, i told her 'listen, i'm not sleeping (really sleeping ) with chick i wont have sex with, so we cant sleep in the same bed.' she to became naughty.

 

[bigneil]

BTW I thought the stripper loved you and was all over you? Guess I was right.

Well if your main point was that I'm not special, I disagree. I've been on a tear with lots of hot women. Dressing better has been the key (it was the suspenders). You were right about her flaking but it was an odd one. Here's what happened:

Tuesday night, 2 days after I broke NC, the stripper (now referred to as #26) reappeared as if nothing ever happened, texting me for 6 hours straight (the most messages in 2 months). She said she will have her new phone set up in 5 days and that her life is chaos without it. She promised to do the bikini photo shoot we planned.

At midnight she asked me out for the next night but I didn't reply. Then she texted again to insist on an answer. I said ok, but only under certain terms and conditions (she had to wear a certain hair style that she hates but I love). She protested and I held my ground. The next night I texted "What time are we going?" and she wrote "What do you mean?".

So what does this new girl do in life?

The only cure for a stripper is another stripper. I have it down to a science but you have to A) Dress like a million bucks, B) pay for a few $20 dances, C) be someone they are highly attracted to, D) massage them until they nearly pass out, E) get their number, F) have her reply and G) have her OFFER (you can't) to meet outside the club (and that means for free dates not prostitution, though some offer that). How does a stripper prove herself? The same way you do, with a real kiss. I had her number within 55 minutes of #26 flaking. She replied in 23 minutes with "Thanks for the massage, we must massage eachother in other places!" Then by the grace of God I ran into her the next night by chance at a bar and she threw herself at me.

 

[DonGorgon]

Tonight I had a second date with a new girl. I would never have met her if the (the S word) hadn't flaked. But when one door closes another opens. If you pay attention, you'll see that when a woman crosses you, another (and always better) woman will magically appear in your life.

Anyhow, I ran into the new girl the second time by chance but she came running over to hug me and she even remembered my birthday. We had just texted eachother earlier today, and we had great chemistry from the first moment. But during our date I told her I still loved another woman. Later when she wanted to start kissing I said "we can be close, but we probably won't have sex tonight". But I said I did think she was a really nice girl. (Fast forward two hours) I've never seen a woman be so wet in my life. She pretty much forced the event to occur.

Try this and post results here!

i am glad you are happy but this is a simple case of extreme physical attraction making a woman be a slut..lol a great thing for us men .. she found you physically attractive so gave it up fast and that is very normal..

 

[zekko]

I've been on a tear with lots of hot women. Dressing better has been the key (it was the suspenders).

Funny, I was just thinking about all the posts on here I read where some guy says he makes one little change and it makes a huge difference (like "I dropped some weight and now the women are all over me"). That seems kind of strange to me. Now you're saying wearing suspenders makes a big difference for you? Interesting.

The only cure for a stripper is another stripper

If they had a facepalm icon I'd use it here.
I don't get the whole stripper thing, but to each his own.

 

[bigneil]

The only 2 times I ever wore suspenders in my life were the two nights I saw the new girl. You might never see me without them again (note they are the alternative to a belt - never wear both together). Suspenders require special fitted pants with buttons. It's a whole outfit that is rare these days, but masculine. She preferred the suspenders without the tie. Other great things to have: cuff links and bow ties.

 

[5string]

I think bigneil just has a big d1ck and fvckin' knows how to use it. He's doing something right.

 

[zekko]

I think bigneil just has a big d1ck and fvckin' knows how to use it.

Sounds like a more plausible explanation than the suspenders.

Suspenders as a peacock item? Worked for Mork.

 

[bigneil]

Wear suspenders and carry a big d!ck. You will go far.

 

[AlexDP]

No need to rub it in. Pride comes before the fall.

Re: the OP, women def like a challenge. This one might have liked on a little TOO much haha. I've heard of "Im not desperate for sex" game working well.

Yes, there is. Because this guy obviously isn't learning. New girl's a stripper as well. And this same guy is out there giving advice to others. It's insanity.

 

[bigneil]

Yes, never take advice from someone who picks up bartenders, barmaids, and strippers.

 

[AlexDP]

Well, upon further review(and you didnt know she was a stripper at the time) its become more obvious why this type of game worked so well on the new chick...triggered rejection/abandonment issues. It doesnt make much sense to generalize what works with them to normal women.

A stripper no, low quality yes. The guy always goes for bartenders and strippers. People you can't build a relationship with and most guys are looking for that. Even if you just want casual sex, they're not the best, because they're lunatics and it might turn out bad.

 

[Jariel]

Something I notice a lot on this forum is that when a guy posts a success story, there are plenty of guys who want to try and pull it apart, point out the negatives or cast judgement.

Girl says she really likes a guy - guys on this forum say she must be lying or manipulating.
Girl puts out on a first date - guys on this forum say she's a slvt and we should be aiming higher.
Girl doesn't put out on the first few dates - guys on this forum say she's not interested and we should move on.
Guy meets girl online and has a great date - guys say that's cowardly and she must be a crazy, crackhead slvt.

I've probably done this myself before now, but all this negativity and trying to undermine each other's successes is really not good for anyone.

It really doesn't matter if a guy is banging a stripper, meeting her online, texting all day or even buying her flowers if he's getting the results he's seeking and is happy.

 

[bigneil]

Well said Jariel. I'm just telling it as it happens.

 

[MisterD]

in response to the main topic of the thread, yeah. you have to remember all the men chasing these women, out of that number, how many tell her "i just want to be friends" or "im not looking for sex".

admittedly i've never used that line myself but many on here have to successful results. friending a girl before she can do it to you or telling her you dont want to have sex right away throws her off her game. who is this guy? he doesn't want to bang me? everyone wants to bang me! am i not good enough? "friends"?? wtf!

she starts qualifying herself to you, throwing herself at you, by that time she's putty in your hands