"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Magic Power Of Shadow Boxing For success With Women!

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When think about shadow boxing,you automatically connect it with something only boxers do in their training,but just about all successful people have at one time or another used this incredible tool.
When a fighter uses shadow boxing,he is preparing himself for the likely situations he will encounter in the ring. If he's smart,he has watched tapes of his opponent and has learned his moves and counter moves. During shadow boxing he practices making the physical moves as if he really were fighting his future opponent.
People shadow-box before going on a job interview. They may physically reharse clamly and confidently answering questions the the interviewer might ask him. Name the situation and you can see that people use shadow boxing to sort of pre-program themselves for success.
Shadow boxing can be enormously helpful in your quest to be successful with women. Think about some of the situations in which you're likely to meet women. In class,at the mall.standing in line,walking down the street,etc.
What if you shadow boxed successfully approaching women in the usual situations in which you find your-self?
Just like an actor reharsing a role,you can shadow box successfully picking up women. You can practice speaking in a full confident voice,easily maintaining eye contact,quickly and easily walking right up to them and going to work.
If you take this seriously,you can explode your success rate with women!:rockon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shadow-boxing Helps You Hit the Ball

Not long ago I visited a friend of mine one Sunday in a suburb of New York. His 10-year-old son had visions of becoming a big-league baseball star. His fielding was adequate, but he couldn't hit. Each time his father threw the ball across the plate, the boy froze up—and missed it a foot. I decided to try something. "You're so anxious to hit the ball, and so afraid you won't, that you can't even see it clearly," I said. All that tension and anxiety was interfering with his eyesight and his reflexes—his arm muscles weren't executing the orders from his brain.

"For the next ten pitches," I said, "don't even try to hit the ball. Don't try at all. Keep your bat on your shoulder. But watch the ball very carefully. Keep your eyes on it from the time it leaves your Daddy's hand until it goes by you. Stand easy and loose, and just watch the ball go by."

After ten trials of this, I advised him, "Now for a while, watch the ball go by and keep the bat on your shoulder, but think to yourself you are going to bring the bat around so it will really hit the ball—solidly and dead-center." After this, I told him to keep on "feeling the same way" and to keep watching the ball carefully, and to "let" the bat come around and meet the ball, making no attempt to hit it hard. The boy hit the ball. After a few easy hits like this, he was knocking the ball a country mile, and I had a friend for life.
 
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