"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the long run

GaryUranga

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I think this poart issnt discussed enough, I want to know from the real pros around here how do theese thigns work in the long run,Im ruining a lot of "friendships" with girls that might be interested (im liek 90% sure they are), Im just payign attention to other options right now but I definetly dont want to discard some of theese for the future, however, to me it seems liek keeping them around as friends will get me stuck in the friend zone or that beign friends will just ruin any possibilities, so Im just pushing theese girl away and actign like an ass to them, cutting almost all contact, its not the way to go about it but I really have no idea how to do this in the long run, I dont know if I should just talk to them normally or build up sexual tension (which I dont want because Idont want to wear it out before I actually want to use it)

so yeah I think everyone would appreciate if in this thread the "pros" talked about this because Ive asked a lot of ppl (DJs) and no one has a clear idea
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GaryUranga

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it is for real..

I dont want to just **** them all.. theese are girls I want to keep as open options for the future, I have a friend who has friends who are girls (and been friends for a long time) and theyre still interested to some extent, I want to achieve that, I actually want friends who are females that might still be options for the future.

My question is how to achieve this, not wether or not I can do them now cause I know I can o speed it up and get them all into me and thats it
 

Eddie417

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You know what women do when they are finished with tampons.
 

GaryUranga

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yeha remote control Im gettign irresistibly attracted to you maybe Im turning a lil bit gay with your huge display of manhood.. anyways..

Im not talkign abotu beign the emotional tampon, thats exactly what Im talkign abotu avoiding here, Im talkign about havign my group of female friends and still be able to just go for them whenever I want.. having just dude friends, now that sounds a bit gay to me.. there MUST be a way to havign chick friends and not being their emotional tampon and being a clear option.. I just started this whole thing and all I know how to do is to go quickly in and just hit that, Im tryign to build an enviroment here not just get all the ***** I can (which is still on the plans anyways)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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