"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The logistical trend I keep encountering

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I've been going to a lot of parties (college - I'm a student) lately and haven't been having the level of success I want.

It seems that the problem I run into most frequently is I'll have a girl pretty far along. (making out with her and $hit) and the friends (always the chubby one especially) decide to bounce to another place.

9 times out of ten, I'll get blown out once they get to their car. C0ckblocked.

I have no Idea how to handle this effectively.

Should I just assume that I'm not going to f*ck her because her friends aren't on board?

Or is it just that if my game was tighter she would drag me along with her (has happened before ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I did the last few times, but it was more of outside of the party behind a wall or whatever.

I guess I'll just try to steal a room in the party. :D
 
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The more people there are around you when you're trying to score/on a date/whatever, the greater the chances of being ****blocked. Isolation and 1on1 is the key. Make sure fatty boombalatty doesn't see you!
 
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