"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The little voice in your head

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We all know that little voice or feeling that makes us act like AFKs. The feeling or voice that tells us we cant do it or a bad feeling like you already failed without even trying. I have that right now and i want to help those who are like me get rid of the lil voice or feeling. My advice is to tell the voice or feeling to go **** ITSELF. Do what ever helps you feel better you can yell or scream in your pillow or even yell in your head just tell it off what ever you do take it out on that little voice or feeling. Your the boss of your own body you can control yourself. So tell the voice or feeling off tell it that it's a piece of **** that cant pick up women or tell it that it's not good enough for anyone. I want you to take control of yourself, your body, your mind! So in conclusion your inner voice is wrong and i want you to tell it to leave you the **** alone and make it feel like ****, just like the way its been making you feel.

"Hard work can buy anything" ~Rint
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What if there is more than one voice in your head saying that. haha
 
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AFK?

But anyway, ARRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHH - Die You EVIL Bvgger!!!!!!!

You SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!


and plz go away, thnx.
 
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Basically that's what you need to do. Challege the voice. If it tells you that you've failed, although you haven't even tried yet, challenge it. Tell it, "Have i really failed? I'll show you!" Just don't let it take control of you. Show it you're the man, and that you don't need to take it's crap. You're a lot better than that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dannyrt34 said:
I feel much better, no longer an AFK.
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You actually made me snort my drink out through my nose, like a SMDOTMN or whatever it would be in netspeak.

No, seriously.

I hope you're happy.
 
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yep, I discovered this years ago, ****t the voice!
 
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