"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The little voice in your head

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We all know that little voice or feeling that makes us act like AFKs. The feeling or voice that tells us we cant do it or a bad feeling like you already failed without even trying. I have that right now and i want to help those who are like me get rid of the lil voice or feeling. My advice is to tell the voice or feeling to go **** ITSELF. Do what ever helps you feel better you can yell or scream in your pillow or even yell in your head just tell it off what ever you do take it out on that little voice or feeling. Your the boss of your own body you can control yourself. So tell the voice or feeling off tell it that it's a piece of **** that cant pick up women or tell it that it's not good enough for anyone. I want you to take control of yourself, your body, your mind! So in conclusion your inner voice is wrong and i want you to tell it to leave you the **** alone and make it feel like ****, just like the way its been making you feel.

"Hard work can buy anything" ~Rint
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What if there is more than one voice in your head saying that. haha
 
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AFK?

But anyway, ARRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHH - Die You EVIL Bvgger!!!!!!!

You SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!


and plz go away, thnx.
 
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Basically that's what you need to do. Challege the voice. If it tells you that you've failed, although you haven't even tried yet, challenge it. Tell it, "Have i really failed? I'll show you!" Just don't let it take control of you. Show it you're the man, and that you don't need to take it's crap. You're a lot better than that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dannyrt34 said:
I feel much better, no longer an AFK.
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You actually made me snort my drink out through my nose, like a SMDOTMN or whatever it would be in netspeak.

No, seriously.

I hope you're happy.
 
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yep, I discovered this years ago, ****t the voice!
 
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