The little voice in your head PT 2

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Styles

Don Juan

Jul 27, 2006

In addition to shunning the little voice that says your are a little ***** that can't be chicken **** in life,

I've also began listening to a different little voice.

It's the one that says,

"touch her. now."

or

"give her a dirty look. right now."

or

"Leave that trick alone!" lol

or

"Let's clean up the house and go work out."
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It's that little voice that can lead you to the spontaneity and inner pimp that ALL of us have inside.

DISCLAIMER: This may be an old old tip. I'll just reiterate.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.