"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The little things

Huffman

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You've done your game for quite some time now.
You've learned all the tricks, mastered all the techniques.
Yet you are left wanting, unfulfilled.

Suddenly, it dawns on you - a rare moment of clarity.
It sets your mind at ease.
It lets you view life through different eyes.

It is this insight that I want you to share with us!
The little things that make the difference.
The little things that the DJ forgets about all to quickly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Huffman

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To start off, a little thing that admittedly took me some time:

Do make conversation!
In my early days I would only make some C&F comments to a girl and then be on my way again, without ever making any real conversation.
While it clearly raises interest in them, it will only get you so far with most girls.

You think you are suave by walking away quickly? You are a chump for not being able to strike up an interesting conversation - thus creating rapport - and you know it!

Don't try to use some smart ass psycho techniqe.
Never forget about the basics. Master them.
 

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Please, share with us your insights.
 

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probably the fact that girls are just as horny as guys..

also. the vibe you feel at any given moment is key when with girls. NO TECHNIQUE in my opinion is as good as this. If you put me in a good mood, dang.. how much easier it is to attract attention.

Furthermore.. no amount of mind altering substances helps you out with this.. better to have no drink/smoke in regards of picking up girls. for a better analysis of this go to your local party and notice taht random drunk guy "woowing" all the ladies.. SIKE!
 
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