"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Little Things.... (NOT YOUR PENIS)

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I had a crazy idea that will guarantee success.

Using our LIFE'S EXPERIENCES, TOGETHER WE MUST MAKE A LIST OF ALL THE LITTLE THINGS THAT WE MUST REMEMBER WHEN TALKING WITH WOMEN. ALL OF THESE SHALL BE FOLLOWED, OR YOU WILL FAIL WITH WOMEN. EVERYONE MUST CONTRIBUTE AND I DONT WANT PEOPLE TO JUST "VIEW" and not reply to this thread. that is not what DJing is about...

So i'll start with a few:

1) Constant Eye Contact WITH HEAD TILT
2) Use left hand
3) smile
4) do not look down after eye contact is obtained
5) do not always compliment (rather tease)
6) Knees touchin
7) let her do talkin
8) disagree
9) let her be comfortable around surrounding before you approach
10) make her feel special by: convincing her your not a player, paying attention to only her even when girls/friends come up to you and ask to talk.
11) touch only: hands/arms
12) Act like u da **** without being ****y
13) stand up for yourself when other people talk down to you.
14) voice pitch either lower/higher than hers?*
(not sure about this 1)
15) when other guys flirt with her, just smile and give her a sign to tell her u got no problem with this bcuz ladies r after you.


NOW: Let the DJ's contribute!!

:p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I guess this is basically my theory on life as a whole, but I think it is more important to look at the big picture than the little things. It is not going to appear natural when you are going through a little checklist in your head about everything you need to do. The more you have to think about, the longer it takes to approach and the less likely someone is to. The 3 second rule is the right idea in my opinion, go with the flow and just do what comes natural.
 

Smooth as Anything

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I'm sorry, this is a dumb idea.

You need to experience an experience to have that experience.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Originally posted by SomethingCreative
I guess this is basically my theory on life as a whole, but I think it is more important to look at the big picture than the little things. It is not going to appear natural when you are going through a little checklist in your head about everything you need to do. The more you have to think about, the longer it takes to approach and the less likely someone is to. The 3 second rule is the right idea in my opinion, go with the flow and just do what comes natural.
Rules don't exist... guidelines are a lie. **** um: cry your ass to tears every night and eventually you'll get hard.

Life works like that, babe.
 

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umm..whatchu mean by use your ..'left hand'
LOL...i'm left handed..i tend to use my left hand anyways..lol
whats the differ...?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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smooth said it right.



Just think about it- if you memorized everything written on these boards, you would never have the time to go outside and actually put it to practice.


I remember first time, a year and a half ago, when i found DYD by angelo, i would memeorize the lines... haha, now i cant remember a single one ;) :p
 

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about the left hand thing- i think he means pick up glasses with your left hand so that when you shake with your right, it isn't cold.
 
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