ok here it goes...............
1]run like the plague, if she has a boyfriend then she is unavailable therefore you shouldnt waste your time with her. you could break them up and go out with her but think about it, would you really trust her if she left her boyfriend for you? what makes you think she wont leave you for some one else in the future.
2]she will smile with you, she will look at you strait in the eyes. she will talk to you all the time, she will not desrespect you. you will be her first priority, she will answer your phone calls, she will not break a date with out asking for a reschdueling, you will not get stood up by her, she will be loyal to you, she will agree with you, she will not play stupid childish games with you, she will laugh at all your lame jokes, when you go for the kiss she will kiss you back.
3]thats a very bad thing, do not DO NOT,
DO NOT tell her that you love her unless you actualy feel that way, and wait for her to tell you first, but you can show her with actions like lets say
BE THE BEST LOVER SHE EVER HAD IN BED
4]well it depends on your attitude and how you want to portray yourself, if you want to apear warm,friendly,safe,and charismatic smile, smile with a genuine smile. if you want to portray your self as misterious,****y and funny,and a ball buster,to have the attitude as "im qualifying you woman" then dont smile. both are good attitudes you just have to find wich one you want to portray.
5]nlp is neuro linguistic programing wich includes mirroring,and seduction through apealing to the program in the persons brain
6] speed seduction, wich includes talking to a girl in phrases tha are apealing to her
7]kino is the touching of a person in a non sexual ways but in erogenous zones it makes her wonder"if his prencence and touch arose me so, imagine how good hell be in bed" also it gets her use to you touching her and opens the way for flirtisious touching in private zones.
8]LJBF= LETS JUST BE FRIENDS, AFC=AVERAGE FRUSTRATED CHUMP,GF=Girl Friend, bf=boy friend
9]not really,it all the pends in your attitude and confidence,
10]start by looking at her eyes for 6seconds then down at her mouth, then at her eyes again, start touching her hair lightly play around with her hair between your fingers and so on, start leaning forward slowly while looking at her mouth. if she doesnt back away, then you got yourself a nice kiss my friend.
11]grinding is getting freaky, wich means rubbing your package angainst her kitty, and your chest against her boobs, or package against her ass and stuff like that, with close on though
12]just go talk to the girl and introduce your self to the group, start leading the conversation in the group, talk to all the girls there, and closely start narrowing the conversation down until is just you and her talking to each other at that point ask for her number.
13]the way i see it is that being a dj is not about rules and being something you are not by following rules to the letter but its rather about changing your personality to the point where you can look at the mirror and say i love you. it just gives you tips on what traits are good with girls but is up to you to decide wich ones are you confortable with and wich ones go with the personality that you are trying to get.
14]it depends on how much practice you have got, if you just singed up today and you read a couple of dj principles and go out thinking youll get anyone you want but you dont have the practice, the confidence and the charisma that is needed then you are f*ucked, how much time it takes to be succesful is in how much determination you got and how much practice you got.
15]good, you learn more about your body and you explore what makes you feel good, besides i read somewhere that the penis needs to have an erection atleast 3times per week to keep the blood flowing nicely and avoid impotence.
16]it depends in what way,
17]go to a stylist (preferably female) ask her what cut looks good on you, cut your hair regularly so when you do it at a salon they can just follow the cut you had before, buy good shampoos and conditioner
18]dont do it is a waste of time, girls are happy one day sad the next, mad the other and so on.
19]what she wants to talk about, she will give you clues on what she wants to talk about. you:do you always come here
her: no this is my first time here im from minesota.
she gave you clues there, you can talk about how life is in minesota, how she likes the city, what does she like about the place and so on.
20]she is not soposed to, you are the one who is suposed to do the calling
21]a week, because it shows that you have a life, you are not desperate and you are a challenge.
22,23]id go for the number, i would say "well it was nice talking to you but i have to go, give me your number and we'll talk later"
24] talk to her for 20 minutes max, and when you call dont reveal to much about your self, preferably call to set up a date
25]
HELL NO!!!!!!!she doesnt deserve another chance, you are a DJ you can do way better.
26]nice clean clothes that match, DO NOT ware cowboy boots with leather jacket,surfer shorts and a cap. you get my drift right
27]not if she is really interested in you
28]kill that desperation, think that girls are not the most important thing in this world, go practice talking with girls not to pick them up but to practice your DJ skills.
29] do not talk about yourself too much, focus the conversation on her. keep things light and do not talk about religion or politics.
30]yes it does, some girls are gold diggers but you dont want those anyways do you? cause they just want your money
31]dump your friends, or convert your friends into djs (youll have competition though)
32] win them over with your newly accuaired dj charm
33]nope
34]do not fart, do not talk about sex, do talk about her and keep things light, you certainly should not talk about your child hood and your problems and all that(she is not your therapist) do not talk bad about yourself. dont just go for dinner and movies try going somewhere fun or somewhere where you guys can talk
35]bad makes you look like a pathetic drunk looser
36]dont think about your fears just go for it, if you have doubts think "if i dont do it it will come back to hunt me" cause trust me not aproaching hurts more than rejection. if you get rejected at least you had the balls to pull it off and aproach.
37]move on, she is not the last girl on earth. think about rejection not as failure but as practice for the next one.
38]think how much balls it took you to aproach, pad your self in the back and feel good because you aproached not many guys do that. think about your aproach and analyze your mistakes so next time you do it better.
39]dont spend that much money on them, ocasionaly make her invest in the relationship and pay for YOUR half of the bill.
40]go out there and face your fears of rejection, cause remember the only way to overcome your fears is to face them and eliminate them
41]so what? keep on djing the same way as before.
42]then there is something wrong with YOU, you should try to figure out what it is and change it, analize what you have done and do something a little bit different next time
43]not really as long as you know how to use ti, and use it good make her feel the way she has never felt before
44]every where but the clubs and bars, go to places where their b!tch shields are down, where they dont expect to be picked up
45]no, they just get aproach with the same lines over and over to the point where they are just anoyed and bored of the same old thing ( thats why you should be different)
46] i dont know, oh well some other dj might
47]some girls like baby faces just look at Leonardo de Caprio or Tom Cruise
48]too old, my grandma
, too young if they are imature and childish or if they havent grown pubic hair yet
49]yeah duh!! how else are you going to bang one chick every night?
50]girls put you into 2 categories friends or lovers, if you are in the friendship zone there is no way out, to avoid that use kino and show your intentions from the start. show her that you are not there to be just her friend but something else thats why you ask for her number, go on a date, and kiss her on the lips
51]turn them around and ask her those questions but try to avoid them or give em short anwers where do you work at? you:my job
her: what do you do there?
you: i work
or you can say "i work at (the place where you work at) but i dont plan to work there for the rest of my life i plan to do(what your plans are) in the future"
52]yeah many times, but nothing cheesey though,
53] i dont know, oh well NEXT!!!!!!
54]tell her that you love her, grab her all over without her letting you, raping is a big nono. IF SHE SAYS NO!!!!! STOP!!!!! IT MEANS NO STOP NOW!!!!!!!
55]if you are not exclusive and she hasnt brought up that question then you are not, or if she is still datin other people you are not a couple yet.
57]beat them at their own game, be a master and to be a master you need to practice,practice,practice!!!!!!
58]no!!! if she doesnt give you her number, she is not interested. when a girl asks you to give her your number instead then that means "no thanks im not interested in you but i dont want to hurt your ego so ill make it seem like i am"
59]
THIS SITE IS THE BEST BY FAR!!!!!
60]yes they can smell fear,nervousnes,confidence and how you feel about yourself from a mile away
61]LTR=long term relationship
IL=interest level
HOB=hot babe
LOL=laughing out loud
LMAO=laughing my azz off
took me 2 hours to type so enjoy
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Confidence is the key to women
THE DJ BIBLE
[This message has been edited by improvingdonjuan (edited 10-27-2001).]
