LionFox
Don Juan
Hey Don Juans, How are ya?
Lionfox here, it's been a long time, too long really, away from the site. I haven't been keeping up much with the general atmosphere of sosuave at all, but the few times I've dropped in, I've noticed the number of excellent posts have dropped off, unfortunately. I plan to help out by posting some tips/thoughts a little later, but first, I need help...
I've been DJing this girl for about 5 months now. At least, I got her #number 5 months ago. I may have set a new DJ record by waiting three months just to call her! Actually, I was really busy with other women because I knew she'd be there..
So let's say two months ago, I really started.. She's always shown signs of High Interest Level and a female friend told me forever ago that the target had confessed she had the hots for my suave dj style.. I'd call her maybe once every other week and invite her out, and you know what, she flaked twice--!
Normally, a next, but she was so apologetic and interested (counteroffer: "Just call me anytime! I'll work around it!"), I decided to give her another chance. Actually, I didn't have too, she invited me out, and we had a great time. She called back a few days later and told me we'd have to do it again and stuff.. I waited a few days then made my first move to show some real sexual interest, and gauging her response, she loved it.. (I happened to have a pair of fuzzy pink handcuffs that I "happened" to let her see)
Feeling like I had the momentum on my side (and some free time), at the beginning of this week I called, with every intention of getting a date that would end with an f-close, but didn't get in touch with her and no call back. Feeling like the time was right, I tried the next day, (same again), and then once more two days later and finally left a message! --The whole week went by and no callback? I'm thinking WTF, I know I have this chick down cold, so what the hell is she thinking? There's playing hard to get (which I was surprised to find she does) and then there is just not returning calls when her interest level was through the roof days before..
I'm not going to keep calling, goes against everything I believe--so what's the skilled way to move forward..? I'm sure I'll actually see her later this week because we both end up at school at the same time... Any analysis would be helpful; I plan on getting this one naked sooner rather than later..
Lionfox here, it's been a long time, too long really, away from the site. I haven't been keeping up much with the general atmosphere of sosuave at all, but the few times I've dropped in, I've noticed the number of excellent posts have dropped off, unfortunately. I plan to help out by posting some tips/thoughts a little later, but first, I need help...
I've been DJing this girl for about 5 months now. At least, I got her #number 5 months ago. I may have set a new DJ record by waiting three months just to call her! Actually, I was really busy with other women because I knew she'd be there..
So let's say two months ago, I really started.. She's always shown signs of High Interest Level and a female friend told me forever ago that the target had confessed she had the hots for my suave dj style.. I'd call her maybe once every other week and invite her out, and you know what, she flaked twice--!
Normally, a next, but she was so apologetic and interested (counteroffer: "Just call me anytime! I'll work around it!"), I decided to give her another chance. Actually, I didn't have too, she invited me out, and we had a great time. She called back a few days later and told me we'd have to do it again and stuff.. I waited a few days then made my first move to show some real sexual interest, and gauging her response, she loved it.. (I happened to have a pair of fuzzy pink handcuffs that I "happened" to let her see)
Feeling like I had the momentum on my side (and some free time), at the beginning of this week I called, with every intention of getting a date that would end with an f-close, but didn't get in touch with her and no call back. Feeling like the time was right, I tried the next day, (same again), and then once more two days later and finally left a message! --The whole week went by and no callback? I'm thinking WTF, I know I have this chick down cold, so what the hell is she thinking? There's playing hard to get (which I was surprised to find she does) and then there is just not returning calls when her interest level was through the roof days before..
I'm not going to keep calling, goes against everything I believe--so what's the skilled way to move forward..? I'm sure I'll actually see her later this week because we both end up at school at the same time... Any analysis would be helpful; I plan on getting this one naked sooner rather than later..