I've come a long ways. I started off bad, very bad. I tried to PLEASE girls. I was insecure, you know the whole AFC. I went through a period of sitting here at my computer sucking up all the information. But guys NOW I had an a life change. Lately I've been in a serene mood. Nothing can seem to touch me. Nothing seems to bother me. After my RAFC period (Recovering Average Frustrated Chump Period), I seem to act more normal around others. I'm not always thinking "Oh my god! What C&F thing can I say now? Am I acting Alpha enough?" I'm relaxed and the things come more natural now. My friends were beginning to think I'm "weird," because I would sometimes preach about sosuave. But all is well now.
Last Friday my band played at battle of the bands. I was damn nervous when I got up to the stage for the first time to play, but the second time we rocked it. We played twice. It was the most fun I may have ever had. After that this girl approaches ME and gives me her phone number. I got a lot of "good jobs" and "dude nice solo" from people. Guitar is my life.
As I got on the plane to go to Florida for spring break I was cheerful as anything. Ah but then I remembered "Damn! I'm with my parents, I'm not going to be able to do a lot of approaches or partying." I was their just enjoying myself I just tried to not notice all the hot babes. I got a tan their.
I came back to school with my tan and immediately people noticed. This hot babe in my math class just straight out "You look SO hot now." Also this group of girls have just been kind of talking about it excessively now.
And now I'm just damn happy! All the thinking, all the damn information soaking I did here is finally paid off. I now see where the REAL world is coming into play.
I've taken some notes on the way maybe they can be as help.
"Life's too short to be pissed off all the time, it's just not worth it."
You should die trying to make a change rather than be insignificant.
If you let oppurtunities go by knowingly, your life becomes a missed oppurtunity.
Do YOU wake up with a smile?
Isn't happiness right in front of us?
If you look at the glass half full rather than half empty then we can live joyfully. Give it a try. The girl that you want to fvck so bad go talk to her and give it a try. Want to join the football team? Go workout and give it a try. And if you do mess up just realize that you can overcome it. You didn't approach her? Okay next! One-itis? She doesn't have one-itis over you? Fvck her.
In the end there's no winners or losers, but who madfe use of their life and enjoyed it.
Are you an unfulfilled soul lost in the sea of unhappiness? Swim out. Poor? One-itis? All good things and bad things come to an end. You decide how fast.
I remember that post by I-AM-SOMEONE about nothing appeals to him, he's emotionless. I know why now. That happened to me until I thought about the future. I thought about how I'm going to SUCCEED. And did it happen? Yes. I'm on the road and have seen the green sign that says "__more miles until you're fulfilled!"
A thing I wrote on 3/15/05
You know everyone *****es about us eating healthier, studying enough, excercising enough so we acn live a long and happy life. A long life? Yeah.
Happy life? No! Everyones so worried aobut living, they don't take time to embrace it. There's no secret really to being happy or serene. It's just going to achieve what you want. The success of this is based on you trying to achieve what you want. If you pass this up, then that is failure. This is not just for your life but everyday goals. See a girl that you want to approach? You approach. If you miss an oppurtunity there's nothing to worry about. I guess what I'm trying to say is everything should be taken lightly, but still make use of your time to achieve your goals. I don't fear death because I shall die one day, the question is when.
I'm just enjoying life now. Anyone whose not enjoying life should re-think their lifestyle. I have CONQUERED my one-itis. Really the way to do that is just by talking to more girls you think are hot. Flirt with them. Everyone is coming together.
The way to get it to come together is just start living what you speak. Stop thinking about what to say, how to approach, about their interest level.
Here I'll sum up what I found to help me from sosuave.
sosuave
It is here to tell you to no longer fear the opposite sex. Girls are flawed. They've been made fun of, they crap, they worry about their appearance.
You will be the most important one in your relationship with them but still treat her well. You do not praise her and follow her every whim.
You choose when the date is and stick to that. If she says she can't make it, you do NOT reschedule at a different time. Say "maybe next weekend" or "I'll call you when I'm avaible."
You will be happy. No one likes to be around pessimistic people.
"Rejection is better than regret," as Pook says.
If you are jealous girls will think you are weak. Basically its a interest level killer.
Everything is fine because you are the hottest guy to ever live.
You must self-improve because to not get better is to say you have conquered life's highest achievement: to be perfect.
C & F
Funny comments made to make yourself sound better.
Example: You're shirt is hot, but mine is SO much hotter!
C & F comments now just come to mind now naturally when I'm talking to girls.
Kino: hit up the bible for that.
Everything is just so easy now. I feel like I'm no longer drowning.
Most of you don't need to think about sosuave techniques and tactics anymore. You don't need to write up every little problem you have. Figuring out things for yourself is the best way. I say one smart guy who thought of leaving to join the real world. He called it "going dark." Life is not dull for the one who see it as a sea of oppurtunities. YES! Oppurtunities are around you everyday. And never give up on this. Really this will shape you into a more successful person.
Lately I've seen people saying "I've lost to an AFC!" Being a DJ does not mean you will always be successful. See it as a test, if you don't care about losing then you win. Just say "I'm better and if she wants him then so be it. I don't care about her now." It's the jealous thing also.
The void for me is filled now...no longer shall I be thinking I'm missing something. For all you that think you are missing something, it's right in front of you. The happiness, sereness, girls, and friends are just another oppurutnity you pass up everyday. Go out and make a difference. Everyday is the most important day of your life and the greatest.
My Void's filled now go fill yours. The cup won't be half full or half empty. It will be FULL!
Good luck guys!
Last Friday my band played at battle of the bands. I was damn nervous when I got up to the stage for the first time to play, but the second time we rocked it. We played twice. It was the most fun I may have ever had. After that this girl approaches ME and gives me her phone number. I got a lot of "good jobs" and "dude nice solo" from people. Guitar is my life.
As I got on the plane to go to Florida for spring break I was cheerful as anything. Ah but then I remembered "Damn! I'm with my parents, I'm not going to be able to do a lot of approaches or partying." I was their just enjoying myself I just tried to not notice all the hot babes. I got a tan their.
I came back to school with my tan and immediately people noticed. This hot babe in my math class just straight out "You look SO hot now." Also this group of girls have just been kind of talking about it excessively now.
And now I'm just damn happy! All the thinking, all the damn information soaking I did here is finally paid off. I now see where the REAL world is coming into play.
I've taken some notes on the way maybe they can be as help.
"Life's too short to be pissed off all the time, it's just not worth it."
You should die trying to make a change rather than be insignificant.
If you let oppurtunities go by knowingly, your life becomes a missed oppurtunity.
Do YOU wake up with a smile?
Isn't happiness right in front of us?
If you look at the glass half full rather than half empty then we can live joyfully. Give it a try. The girl that you want to fvck so bad go talk to her and give it a try. Want to join the football team? Go workout and give it a try. And if you do mess up just realize that you can overcome it. You didn't approach her? Okay next! One-itis? She doesn't have one-itis over you? Fvck her.
In the end there's no winners or losers, but who madfe use of their life and enjoyed it.
Are you an unfulfilled soul lost in the sea of unhappiness? Swim out. Poor? One-itis? All good things and bad things come to an end. You decide how fast.
I remember that post by I-AM-SOMEONE about nothing appeals to him, he's emotionless. I know why now. That happened to me until I thought about the future. I thought about how I'm going to SUCCEED. And did it happen? Yes. I'm on the road and have seen the green sign that says "__more miles until you're fulfilled!"
A thing I wrote on 3/15/05
You know everyone *****es about us eating healthier, studying enough, excercising enough so we acn live a long and happy life. A long life? Yeah.
Happy life? No! Everyones so worried aobut living, they don't take time to embrace it. There's no secret really to being happy or serene. It's just going to achieve what you want. The success of this is based on you trying to achieve what you want. If you pass this up, then that is failure. This is not just for your life but everyday goals. See a girl that you want to approach? You approach. If you miss an oppurtunity there's nothing to worry about. I guess what I'm trying to say is everything should be taken lightly, but still make use of your time to achieve your goals. I don't fear death because I shall die one day, the question is when.
I'm just enjoying life now. Anyone whose not enjoying life should re-think their lifestyle. I have CONQUERED my one-itis. Really the way to do that is just by talking to more girls you think are hot. Flirt with them. Everyone is coming together.
The way to get it to come together is just start living what you speak. Stop thinking about what to say, how to approach, about their interest level.
Here I'll sum up what I found to help me from sosuave.
sosuave
It is here to tell you to no longer fear the opposite sex. Girls are flawed. They've been made fun of, they crap, they worry about their appearance.
You will be the most important one in your relationship with them but still treat her well. You do not praise her and follow her every whim.
You choose when the date is and stick to that. If she says she can't make it, you do NOT reschedule at a different time. Say "maybe next weekend" or "I'll call you when I'm avaible."
You will be happy. No one likes to be around pessimistic people.
"Rejection is better than regret," as Pook says.
If you are jealous girls will think you are weak. Basically its a interest level killer.
Everything is fine because you are the hottest guy to ever live.
You must self-improve because to not get better is to say you have conquered life's highest achievement: to be perfect.
C & F
Funny comments made to make yourself sound better.
Example: You're shirt is hot, but mine is SO much hotter!
C & F comments now just come to mind now naturally when I'm talking to girls.
Kino: hit up the bible for that.
Everything is just so easy now. I feel like I'm no longer drowning.
Most of you don't need to think about sosuave techniques and tactics anymore. You don't need to write up every little problem you have. Figuring out things for yourself is the best way. I say one smart guy who thought of leaving to join the real world. He called it "going dark." Life is not dull for the one who see it as a sea of oppurtunities. YES! Oppurtunities are around you everyday. And never give up on this. Really this will shape you into a more successful person.
Lately I've seen people saying "I've lost to an AFC!" Being a DJ does not mean you will always be successful. See it as a test, if you don't care about losing then you win. Just say "I'm better and if she wants him then so be it. I don't care about her now." It's the jealous thing also.
The void for me is filled now...no longer shall I be thinking I'm missing something. For all you that think you are missing something, it's right in front of you. The happiness, sereness, girls, and friends are just another oppurutnity you pass up everyday. Go out and make a difference. Everyday is the most important day of your life and the greatest.
My Void's filled now go fill yours. The cup won't be half full or half empty. It will be FULL!
Good luck guys!
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