"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Liberation of a Breakup

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The key move: before dinner we stepped outside the crowded sushi restaurant. We had been together about one hour. I decided to go for the kiss right there. It was the most odd reaction I got. She essentially went through with the kiss while backing away so that our lips never touched - but her body language was exactly the same as it would have been during a kiss (namely positive). It was an air kiss, a sort of dance move. I maintained my composure and just laughed it off.

During the date she started holding really long eye contact. She made love to me with her eyes. She kept asking "what?". Has anyone noticed how girls who really like you will always hold eye contact and then ask "what?". After the date she asked me to drive her to her apartment and I got a real kiss in the driveway. She talked about at least 5 date ideas for our next date.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The best is when your doing most of the work in the relationship. If you're a DJ, it's not much work.

It's still liberating, because you gain some of your value back, that she sucked out of you. And, she loses out on this value. Boo fukking hoo!!!
 

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