The "Let her down easy" thread

[Lexington]

As we know, a good DJ should always be spinning multiple plates. The negative thing about having so many simultaneous projects in the works is that you're going to have to let go of some. Some of these girls are good girls who really like you, so you want to let them down easy.

I wanted to start a thread for us to bounce ideas of each other about how we can cut women loose with the least amount of pain. I'm not talking about fvck buddies or girls with whom you had a ONS. I'm talking about girls who truly wanted a serious LTR with you.

 

[Lexington]

I'll start with a tip of my own. It's not really groundbreaking or original, but I like to use the sandwich method. This is a pretty common strategy used to deliver bad news in a variety of different contexts.

Basically you sandwich the bad news in between two pleasant topics. So you open by telling the girl what an awesome person she is. Then you break the bad news that there's someone else. You tell her that if you didn't have this thing going with the other person, you'd love to date this girl. You then reassure her that she won't be on the market for long. If at all possible, you should try and set her up with a good friend of yours.

Make sure that you inject a little humor into it. She probably will be hurting, but laughter is a good medicine. Really try to reassure her that she won't be on the market for long. And if you can set her up with a friend, you're doing a good thing for two people you know.

 

[Chromeo]

sorry but I dont think I would take second helpings from my buddy.

"Hey man I been bangin this broad, but I found something better, you want her?"

SURE!.... not hahaha

 

[Lexington]

sorry but I dont think I would take second helpings from my buddy.

"Hey man I been bangin this broad, but I found something better, you want her?"

SURE!.... not hahaha

If she's hot, why not? By the time they're in their 20s most chicks have banged god knows how many guys.

 

[SandHawk]

If she's hot, why not? By the time they're in their 20s most chicks have banged god knows how many guys.

I don't want the hand downs from my friends. The fact that they f*cked how many dudes before me doesn't bother me, but the fact that my friend stuck his **** in there would bother me.