"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Lakehouse.

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Who has seen this movie? What did you think of it? Very weird, but a pretty cool concept even though it could never work in reality.

Thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've only seen the original, a korean movie called 'Il Mare'.

Yeah, the concept was cool... Kinda like that movie with Jim Caviezel, 'Frequency' or so.

I don't know how it ended in the american version, but I didn't get it in the Korean. I mean, he dies runned over by a car, but he shows up to the girl in the past? Meh, I think I'm going to see it again to sort this out.
 

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Yeah its odd. I think it must be the same as the Korean version. Cause at the end, he does get hit by a car, but since she sees the future, she tells him this just in time, so he just goes to look at her, and then does not cross the road. He waits 2 years to see her after that. Its a very very strange movie. Would be interesting to hear some of the movie buffs on this site take on it. See what exactly they thought the whole point of it was and how it exactly all fit together. Its not until I read their reviews that I actually get exactly what was meant to be happening in the movie.

One more thing, how crazy is the house! Looks awesome, but fukc you would get woke up early in the morning due to the sun, and damn you would get sunburnt! All that glare off the lake!
 

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BBX said:
I had a girl all over me when I saw it so, I have no idea what happened.....nor do I care.
Your cool. Thanks for your insight.

But I see where your coming from, when I was 16, I may have said the same thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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