Just curious if anyone else has noticed this. I'm extremely busy with everything in my life so I usually am not the one that makes initial contact with the girls I already know cause I haven't the time. So there will be almost a week of no calls from the ladies, then all of a sudden within a 4 day span all the plates will call at the same time. Does anyone else notice this, that the poon comes in waves? Sometimes all on the same day, and you have to miss some of it, lol. Then I will have about 5 to 7 days of down time again, and bam, the wave rolls back in.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The ladies come in waves...
- Thread starter latinnova
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mr. kennedy
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 3, 2012
- Messages
- 215
- Reaction score
- 21
I realized that in online dating.
Peaks&Valleys
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 11, 2013
- Messages
- 1,956
- Reaction score
- 355
Yes, I've noticed this too.
It's going really well, or it's not going at all. Feast or Fathom, you're high or you're low, you're in a peak or you're in a valley....
It's going really well, or it's not going at all. Feast or Fathom, you're high or you're low, you're in a peak or you're in a valley....
Skyline
Master Don Juan
"Peaks&Valleys"
Take advantage of the peaks!
Take advantage of the peaks!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.