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I agree with that but when you go on the Apps like Tinder, POF, etc you see mostly land whales and tattoo women. Do a lot of men use these as pump and dumps?
There's obviously a couple factors to why that is but women in their 20s are more desirable, are exercising their options, and want to have fun while they can, which is why they're more unsure and are flakier. That's all fine and well but their self image and world view get extremely distorted (which is why a lot of them have more of a masculine mindset and most young guys have a very feminine mindset in certain regards as you've mentioned). Although I'm fairly young, most of my friends are in their late 20s, early 30s so I get to look at their perspectives as well. In the 30s, the desperation starts to kick in almost suddenly just in terms of craving attention. The guys in their 30s or older have no trouble with that attraction and even maintain that attraction for a longer period of time with those in the same age range without doing much at all. Although this is the case, they've already seen enough to see past most and realize that most are still low quality. That's when the desperation turns into resentment, unfortunately. This is evident when you overhear the older, much less desirable ones who've gone through all that complaining to their friends on "how **** life is". There's nothing wrong with any of that, it's just the way things are, but it really messes with that awareness of the world because of the constant positive reinforcement (on steroids) early on that the confusion that happens later on when that slowly goes away leads to unhappiness and unfulfillment in life.
Depends on location. Down here on OLD. the women 38 and above are MUCH better looking than the 35 and under. There isn't a lot of women under late 30s on the OLD apps here and the ones that are they're usually land whales or just nasty. OLD is made up of single moms, lots of post wall. The 40 year olds on OLD down here are much more slim and clean looking than the few that are 35 and under.
Never been on either, so I cannot comment. I just think you have extremely high standards for ladies, and right now, you are not high enough to justify those standards. You can, if you work on yourself, but it seems you'd rather chat on SS all day and night.
Weren't those hags in their 30s?
They get tired of making the wrong choices and living on the edge. They say, with all that male DNA now in them, it's f ucks with their hormones.
Perhaps, but why should a dude say, okay, I'll take you now even though you turned me down 10 years ago? His stock should be rising, and her's is falling. Just something to think about......
Wait, so you don't use OLD? Are you crazy? I only have OLD to get dates. I have nowhere to meet the women the normal way except the fleamarket but I'm too wrapped in my business. Even times they try talking to me I'm too business focused.
I have often wondered if the reason isn’t overwhelming of offers, but that these women are so broke or damaged that they can’t pull the trigger and go through with a date. Or they are in a relationship already. In either case they just want validation that they COULD get a guy, if they wanted to. My eyes have definitely been opened by learning how many women over 30 are out there who haven’t beenin any kind of LTR (even like 6 months) for 10+ years.
They were trying to beat down the still handsome 40+ yr old mens.
I don’t think ALL women over 30 are as you describe, but I totally agree about the hardening with age and I do think it affects way, way more women than most men realize.
Not for over a year. When I did, even I was amazed at all the choices. I could only imagine what ladies experience. Not bragging, but I had more numbers than I could handle, so I never contacted a dozen or so. I do feel that I left some p ussy on the table though.
Agree. Other than maybe free dinner dates they have intention. It's usually the more attractive ones too you keep seeing on there for years. With all the bombardments they get from men (i've seen inboxes of HBs) There is no excuse they can't find someone by now.
I posted some of those profiles in the old funnies thread.
You two dudes are way too negative. Reach out, chat, meet, f uck. It really isn't that hard if you are near a major metro area. Stop being butt hurt and get to work (@stormrider, not @biggoal. He's just going to stay on SS all day to complain) .
This makes alot of sense,
Yep, I'm one of the worlds biggest feminists.. Right next to Tom Leykis. I think ladies should be paying for as much or more as what dudes do. Not talking about molding, that's done. Just meet, f uck and move on. That's what the majority of them want... Well, until their maternal clock kicks in that is.
Cute retort. Happy hunting dude.
