"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The L word

bzrk

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So, former total AFC here now incredibly happy and confident and in a relationship. Here's my problem....I like this girl too much.

I know this generally isn't the grounds covered on here, but how deep in a relationship is it considered normal to bust out such a dangerous word? I actually think I do love this girl, she's perfect for me (not perfect in general, at all, and I love it :p)


Any advice is also appreciated, but she doesn't play games or anything so I don't wanna do ******* stuff to her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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General advise I've seen given here. Get her to say it first. Once said, use very sparingly.
 

bzrk

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Hughman said:
General advise I've seen given here. Get her to say it first. Once said, use very sparingly.
That was my plan (Yeah I totally camped this thread). Just seeing if anyone else had some wisdom.
 
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