Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The L word

bzrk

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So, former total AFC here now incredibly happy and confident and in a relationship. Here's my problem....I like this girl too much.

I know this generally isn't the grounds covered on here, but how deep in a relationship is it considered normal to bust out such a dangerous word? I actually think I do love this girl, she's perfect for me (not perfect in general, at all, and I love it :p)


Any advice is also appreciated, but she doesn't play games or anything so I don't wanna do ******* stuff to her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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General advise I've seen given here. Get her to say it first. Once said, use very sparingly.
 

bzrk

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Hughman said:
General advise I've seen given here. Get her to say it first. Once said, use very sparingly.
That was my plan (Yeah I totally camped this thread). Just seeing if anyone else had some wisdom.
 
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