Hey guys hows it going?
Just so you know, to all of you out there before I ask this question I'd like to first say that since I've been reading from this site I have actually started making big time improvement. I was really depressed before I stumbled upon here, and now I'm very social. In fact, I've actually been doing sort of a self improvement program of my own which I haven't been posting but I'm at the point where I can literally approach anyone, and not only that but have a great flowing conversation as well. Next week I'm looking to be able to get numbers when it goes well too, I messed that up a bit last night but still trust me I'm doing a lot better.
Anyways enough of my rant on that. My big question is on what I call "The Kiss of Death". I'd like to say I joined the site initially because I'm a really short guy (basically 5 ft tall) so my confidence sucked. Its gotten a lot better since I realized that girls aren't actually as important as people make them out to be, its just a part of being a man like owning a house and such.
But anyways, as a short guy I notice that a lot of times if I'm being funny and things are going well, I'll get a kiss on the cheek from girls eventually over the course of the night or if I've seen them around a couple of times. Now, since I'm short I realize that sometimes I'm overly sensitive to this fact, but is that an indicator to move on because their subconsciously saying that they aren't interested? I mean if a girl is into a guy she'll wrap her arms around him and stuff but I don't know. Or am I just overthinking?
By the way thanks for the help so far guys!
Just so you know, to all of you out there before I ask this question I'd like to first say that since I've been reading from this site I have actually started making big time improvement. I was really depressed before I stumbled upon here, and now I'm very social. In fact, I've actually been doing sort of a self improvement program of my own which I haven't been posting but I'm at the point where I can literally approach anyone, and not only that but have a great flowing conversation as well. Next week I'm looking to be able to get numbers when it goes well too, I messed that up a bit last night but still trust me I'm doing a lot better.
Anyways enough of my rant on that. My big question is on what I call "The Kiss of Death". I'd like to say I joined the site initially because I'm a really short guy (basically 5 ft tall) so my confidence sucked. Its gotten a lot better since I realized that girls aren't actually as important as people make them out to be, its just a part of being a man like owning a house and such.
But anyways, as a short guy I notice that a lot of times if I'm being funny and things are going well, I'll get a kiss on the cheek from girls eventually over the course of the night or if I've seen them around a couple of times. Now, since I'm short I realize that sometimes I'm overly sensitive to this fact, but is that an indicator to move on because their subconsciously saying that they aren't interested? I mean if a girl is into a guy she'll wrap her arms around him and stuff but I don't know. Or am I just overthinking?
By the way thanks for the help so far guys!