"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Key to this site for me.....

Heretolearn

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Hi,

I came to this site with my heartbroken. Probably looking to get back with my former flame. Maybe looking to get another flame as I was addicted.

However, the biggest key for me from this site and the 'bible' is that it is much harder and more rewarding to be able to live alone then with a girl.

What I mean, is to be happy with yourself. TO NOT NEED A GIRL.

The funny thing is, this is when girls will come to YOU.

My tip: focus on yourself. Find things in life that you love. Not persons. Create a life so that no matter what persons come and go, YOU STILL HAVE A LIFE WORTH LIVING!

The persons will come and go. You have YOU for LIFE! Get used to it!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bloke

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Originally posted by yendor28
Hi,

I came to this site with my heartbroken. Probably looking to get back with my former flame. Maybe looking to get another flame as I was addicted.

However, the biggest key for me from this site and the 'bible' is that it is much harder and more rewarding to be able to live alone then with a girl.

What I mean, is to be happy with yourself. TO NOT NEED A GIRL.

The funny thing is, this is when girls will come to YOU.

My tip: focus on yourself. Find things in life that you love. Not persons. Create a life so that no matter what persons come and go, YOU STILL HAVE A LIFE WORTH LIVING!

The persons will come and go. You have YOU for LIFE! Get used to it!
I came to this site for the exact same reason as you, & I agree with your post entirely
 
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