"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Key to this site for me.....

Heretolearn

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Hi,

I came to this site with my heartbroken. Probably looking to get back with my former flame. Maybe looking to get another flame as I was addicted.

However, the biggest key for me from this site and the 'bible' is that it is much harder and more rewarding to be able to live alone then with a girl.

What I mean, is to be happy with yourself. TO NOT NEED A GIRL.

The funny thing is, this is when girls will come to YOU.

My tip: focus on yourself. Find things in life that you love. Not persons. Create a life so that no matter what persons come and go, YOU STILL HAVE A LIFE WORTH LIVING!

The persons will come and go. You have YOU for LIFE! Get used to it!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bloke

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Originally posted by yendor28
Hi,

I came to this site with my heartbroken. Probably looking to get back with my former flame. Maybe looking to get another flame as I was addicted.

However, the biggest key for me from this site and the 'bible' is that it is much harder and more rewarding to be able to live alone then with a girl.

What I mean, is to be happy with yourself. TO NOT NEED A GIRL.

The funny thing is, this is when girls will come to YOU.

My tip: focus on yourself. Find things in life that you love. Not persons. Create a life so that no matter what persons come and go, YOU STILL HAVE A LIFE WORTH LIVING!

The persons will come and go. You have YOU for LIFE! Get used to it!
I came to this site for the exact same reason as you, & I agree with your post entirely
 
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