"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Key To Everything

Mission

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Do you want to have success with women? Do you want to be successful in life with your peers? Do you want to be successful in your career?

Well lucky for you I am going to simply break it down for you right here, right now.

Honesty
Integrity
Value
Respect
Leadership
Thoughtful
Maturity
Quality
Confidence
Humor

Those are the ten most powerful qualities any of us can ever possess. If you want to have truly awesome game, you have to stick to all of these. You must also search for these qualities in others, and only choose to give respect to those who possess these traits. You must be critical, you must have standards. People can see right through bullshyt, if you are dishonest people will pick up on it, if you lack value, people will notice. You have to adjust your thinking towards those ten qualities. Do not fake it. MAKE IT HAPPEN. I promise you will all see results when you can honestly turn around and say you possess all the above traits.

--Mission
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blinkwatt

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................BRILLANT POST!

You must also search for these qualities in others, and only choose to give respect to those who possess these traits. You must be critical, you must have standards.

Bravo,alot of people do not realize that when they lower their standards for others they slip to their level someday.
 

sexy_kuta

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funny thing is that i can easily see all those traits in myself.. they came natrually.. only thing that i had to gain was..

more value for myself,
developed leadership, and to boost my confidence..

i grew up with respect and i live my life by it, honesty comes with respect.
 
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