"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The key is to quit bad habits!

Demonicale

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My main bad habit was Masturbation, i know we have another topic somewhere so i won't go into that in this thread.

I'm just seeing a new me, one that is done with the same old ****, it's time to come out of the shell and smell the sweet air!.

Maybe alot of people's problems is they get stuck in a "rut" as in, they do the same old thing's that don't work .. maybe change the formula?.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JonJaper

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I used to jerk-off at least twice a day...since losing my virginity, I cut down to about once every 2-3 days. Ultimately I want to aim for once a week.

Specifically to jerking-off (or this might apply to other bad habits too, I dunno)...I think the key is to keep yourself busy with other things (gym, going out, work/school, self-improvement etc) then you forget all about wanting to whack the whale.
 

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Demonicale said:
My main bad habit was Masturbation, i know we have another topic somewhere so i won't go into that in this thread.

I'm just seeing a new me, one that is done with the same old ****, it's time to come out of the shell and smell the sweet air!.

Maybe alot of people's problems is they get stuck in a "rut" as in, they do the same old thing's that don't work .. maybe change the formula?.
Why do you think masturbation is bad?:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Aaron B

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in my experience, a major key is to recognize those behaviors that you engage in unconsciously that communicate desperation and neediness, and to eliminate those behaviors
 

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People vary a lot about what they seek (and get) from masturbation. The stress relief, when I have no lady available, keeps me from beating the crap out of all the jerks around me every day.
 
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