The keep-away.

[LinkinParkROX]

I'm having a hard time doing this. I really like this girl, so it's pretty hard. Especially because she's online in my AIM buddy list right now. I can see her online, she just won't initiate a conversation. And I really feel like starting one, but I know I can't because of this keep-away. Also, what if she gets tired and bored of me because of this and just goes and gets someone else? What if she doesn't need me anymore? Ahhhh this is so frustrating. I'm a Don Juan, through and through, but this is such a ****ing weakness.

 

[jeffthechef]

keep away doesn't mean dont talk forever...sometimes it doesn't even have to mean dont talk for periods of time...and it's hard for me to believe you're a dj after 2 posts haha
anyways
there are many different ways to get a girl...you're actually at the easier stage for most...some have problems getting the girl to go out with them somewhere...some have problems retaining her after the first outing

honestly though, i dont think i should go through all the methods cause it'll probably confuse the **** otu of you...so here's my advice

talk to her...the lenth of the conversation depends on how well you make it...if it's exciting then continuee talking...but if it's that weak **** like...soooo what are you doing..not much..you?..same...THEN **** IT, you've already went too damn far...so when do you stop?...you stop when you know the conversation could reach one more level...right before the climax...leave...make up some **** and leave...as long as you're leaving her anxious and happy...you're good....

the next time you talk to her, she probably would initiate the conversation because she's so anxious and happy from last time...but if she doesnt, you feel it out...the thing with girls are, they're unpredictable so don't botther playing mind games

here are some examples...
i had this fairly attractive girl...she would hardly start conversations on aim..perhaps 1 out of every 3 or 4 conversations...hell, she always had a bf...so our conversations sucked..this was pre-dj btw...turns out she did like me...found out from her friend...

same group of girls...her friend though...was interested in me...but she would only start one conversation with me out of our about 14 aim conversations...TURNS OUT I ****ED THAT ONE UP TOO..LOL..

but sometimes they are the one to start allt he conversations...like my ex

basicallly, stop ****ing around on aim and get her number...if you have her number, **** aim already and take her otu somewhere...get some mind sex going on...then she'll be aroused by your physical body and your intellectual body...most girls enjoy a guy with an intelligent mind and an in-shape body...
BUT LOTS OF IT'S ATTITUDE..haha well i'm digressing...hope that answers your quesiton

 

[LinkinParkROX]

and it's hard for me to believe you're a dj after 2 posts

I've been like this for the past few months. I just didn't know this kind of attitude I had + Kino & stuff was called being a DJ. So yeah.

 

[S.Y.L]

It means, don't be so god damn clingy, and talk to her every single minute of the day.

 

[It's-Me]

Patience is a virtue in every aspect of life.

Read Pook's post about patience.

 

[Hughman]

I try to keep a 3-1 ration, where I initiate 1 convo for every 3 of theirs. I also try to end the convos on my terms as much as possible.