Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The joys of running til you puke

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It seems to me that long distance running is one of the most unnatural forms of "exercise" a human can do. Just look at the typical Olympic marathoner...not quite the picture of robust health as far as I'm concerned.

Are you running yourself to death?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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its only stressful because our brains have outgrown our bodies over the past few thousand years, so modern "civilization" is comprised of people who are hopelessly out of shape.

the human body was physiologically designed via natural selection for long-distance running

even 150 years ago, a 100-mile run was routine travel for some native american groups.

but of course, we started with agriculture and horses, and the technology tree kept climbing up... humans in some respects have no need to exercise anymore, and so we're all a bunch of physically-inept slobs.


if you're unfamiliar with running's integral role in human evolution, just do a google search.
here's a result
http://discovermagazine.com/2006/may/tramps-like-us
 

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Good link, piranha.
At the end of the article there were allusions to the "other" school of thought that postulated the opposite (human are not born runners).

When it comes to the world of evolutionary biology and psychology, there is tons of conjecture but no true factual knowledge.

No suprise that some of the scientists were long distance runners themselves. I'm from the school of thought that humans descended from a long line of "sprinter" hunters. As we developed superior intelligence, the need to run for 5 hours at a slow pace to tire out our dinner became useless. Since we developed the ability to outsmart prey, it became a matter of hiding and waiting and pouncing. In other words, explosive speed and strength.

They illustrate the example of horses...who have never been hunters. Their primary evolutionary adaption has been to haul ass out of whatever predicament they are in, and FAST. The scientists in this article neglected that critical fact...much of our evolution is not just about hunting but about fleeing as well :D
 

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Touché.
 
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