"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Journey Begins Now!

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21 year old college student
Short
Very Skinny.
Severe acne that is difficult to treat.
Lots of scars and blemishes.
my complexion is destroyed.
Not that much friends.
No True Passion.
Lack of Confidence.
Shy.
Virgin.
Never ever kissed a girl.
Sufferin' one-itis from last girl who broke my heart.
Not just an AFC, a BAFC

Now..
I turned 21 a few months ago and finding this website was the best present I ever got.
I read through the DJ bible and I’ve never felt so inspired in my life.

No more crying.
No complaining.
No whining.
No b*tchin'
No more carin' what people think of me.
No more wallowin' in self-pity.

I Will take control!
I am the ultimate underdog.
Against all odds, I shall remain!

I AM A MAN!
I AM GONNA CHANGE!
F*CK MY PAST!
I AM A F*CKING MAN!
I WILL F*CKING FIGHT!

AAAAHHHHH!!!!!

The journey begins now!
My metamorphisis Begins Now!
I mean it! I promise!
I will one day look back and laugh at where
I was now!
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damn dude....that's some inspirational attitude! :)

I feel the same way. I've had some success with the ladies in the future and I set high goals for myself. I'm going to rebuild my confidence and live my life as a true winner. Getting the girls to chase ME, instead of being a poor puppydog that begs for their attention...

I've just decided to go through the BootCamp training. But that will just be the first steps. Have to build from the buttom as I'm pretty fvucked right now...getting ljbf'ed all the time!

Sign up for the BC dude and we'll evolve :D

I've also had acne-problems..I know how much that kills your confidence as it's really tough to keep eyecontact with girls without feeling very self-conscious. I went to a dermatologist and got Roaccutane cure. It helped alot, but I still get the occacional blemish. I'm on antibiotics now though, which keeps it in check.
It's a confidence-turningpoint!
 

Smooth Player 056

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I think I can speak for everyone here and say....Good Luck on your Journey man!

Both of you, about the acne thing, I used to have moderate acne and now I am completely clear. Trust me when I say visit ACNE.ORG, they also have great modivational forums there too.
 

Badmannaz

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Dude your absolutley on the right path....

I found this site and it inspired me to take control of my life and i've done it!!!!

results
1.getting new job
2.working out(my calf muscles are poping out now!!)
3./doing better in school
4.a little more comfortable with talking to women
I lactually took the focuse off women to better myself then in the long run i will be able to get rejected by a women knowing that it couldn't have been what she saw on the outside but better yet our personalities where not compatible...

I noticed when you work out and you see results you start to gain tons and tons of energy...i stopped thinking about what i was and started to focuse on what and where i wanted to be.
 
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