"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Joker Movie.. Whats Your Opinion?

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Loved it.. But what did I learn from this movie? Never to take any shyte from anyone... Ever!

A girl disrespects you.. NEXT

A girl makes very little effort to communicate with you.. NEXT

Your not her priority.. NEXT

Single mother or she has a shyte load of Red Flags? NEXT
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have not seen this movie yet. Waiting for it to come on Bluray and then borrow from my library and watch it for free. You recommend this is worth jumping quene of a free home watch and paying for a cinema view this late in the day? Think it was released a month or so ago.
 

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Total waste of film from an entertainment perspective imo…
 

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My GF and I saw it last weekend. What I saw was a "nice" man who got pushed pushed pushed to his breaking point and then let the world have it. I've never had thoughts of doing the things he did, but I have an understanding of the people that do. Especially from all of the mental health training I have had as a cop. In my state we train a lot on mental health issues. Just went to another class earlier this week. Human beings can only take so much, no matter how good we once were.
 

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My GF and I saw it last weekend. What I saw was a "nice" man who got pushed pushed pushed to his breaking point and then let the world have it. I've never had thoughts of doing the things he did, but I have an understanding of the people that do. Especially from all of the mental health training I have had as a cop. In my state we train a lot on mental health issues. Just went to another class earlier this week. Human beings can only take so much, no matter how good we once were.

This movie is very worrying to the Establishment.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's an excellent movie, a masterpiece even from a storytelling perspective. It made me uncomfortable, which is good, but it also glorifies the sociopathic revolutionary spirit which is dangerous in this day and age.
 
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