Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm going to close my 'bootcamp' here as originally intended and see if I can get some order into my life. Right now I've come to believe that I have to sort out a few things in my life before really going after women, or that women would naturally come into life once a few things are sorted out. So rather than put the cart before the horse, I'm going to be focusing on stabalising a few things and at least having a real choice of moving out into some other half-decent place. People on this thread here seem to think that being independent is very important.

I have a few friends - and have a system whereby if I continue lucking out with women, c0ckblockers or whatever by October 25 this year, I'm going to go on a porn vacation on November (can watch internet/movie/whatever porn and think about wh0res, easy women, sex tours, whatever....) - which I have purposely deprived myself for over six months, and whatever. If things can work out smoothly and seem to go 'somewhere', then I'll continue depriving myself of porn, so either way I win.

So, keeping the focus away from women and into trying to build something for myself or being 'independent' - while at the same time, trying not to be oblivious to them entirely.

However, if I am able to move away from my parents, or am assessing how I'm going to move away (i.e. how I would do so with a bad credit rating, no predictible income, how much I would have to budget for, etc....) then I'll follow up on these things later here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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