"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The irregular heart beat.

SuperMan_Wuss

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ok, I developed this after I began working out and after joining this site. I call it my irregular heart beat.

So when I am with a girl or couple girls I will do this to get a laugh and some hand touching out of them. It has worked 100% of the time.

Ok so what I do is I mention that I was born with an irregular heart beat. I bs a little about it for a sec, then I ask the girl if she wants to feel it. Usually they say yes right away and sometimes they don't so I have to persuade a little. So I hold out my hand for hers. I take hold of it and put her hand flat on my chest, right over my left pec (thats the stronger one on me). I move her hand arround my pec just a bit and mumble something like "it's a little hard to find" or something like that. Then after a few seconds of this I flex my pec really fast, 2 or three times in a heart beat pattern. They usually become startled and pull their hand away and when they realize what I had done they bust out laughing. Its awesome... Then you can say somehting like "oh, I didn't mean to scare you" then give her a big hug or somehting... it's rad as hell....

Hopefully this hasnt been done before so I am not being redundant.

PEACE!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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