"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Iranian from Hell!!! "MUST READ"!!!

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Just Read This on http://www.fastseduction.com and find it very intersting.

The Iranian from Hell

by Maniac High (http://www.pickupguide.com)

Last year, I was in a Tokyo bar with one of my GFs. And, we spotted on the dance floor, the Iranian from hell. He looked like ****, was fat, ugly as sin, wore clothes that looked like it came from the salvation army, and a worn out baseball cap. Oh, and did I say he was 45 Y.O. about, and probably didn't speak ENglish, or Japanese..., and probably had a **** job taking chicken guts out of bird in a processing plant...or was an illegal who lived in a park or something. This guy was by far the most discusting basket case loser in the place that whole night. As well, in this thoroughly racist country, Iranians are at the very bottom of the barrel, below gaijins, Japanese, Asians..everything..that is as low as you go... (Japanese perspectives..not mine)..

So what did he do? He went on the dance floor, and hit on *EVERY* chick there. Most (no all actually!), blew him out instantly! but he didn't give up. He was persistant like ****, I never saw a guy as persistant as him, he'd get knocked out and was right back in there., and as long as he got any reaction (good or bad), he kept on hitting.. And he had no wing either, this was a totally solo act..

ANd guess what! He started to get kino on a chick, who totally in his face blew him out a little earlier (he since hit on other chicks), and at first she resisted, and gave really bad looks, but he kept plugging away, and then she relented (she didn't leave), and started to dance with him, coldly at first, obviously not enjoying it. LAter they got closer, and her face relaxed, as he smiled at her and tried to charm her,, (he tried often,and she pushed back), ...and 20 minutes later, they were kissing and all over each other! Later they left together.. her hanging all over him... And the chick was an HB too, 20s, and very cute! So whenever I think I am not good looking enough (I am average), or see some model type hit on chicks that I want, and feel jealous or something I always remember the "Iranian from hell" story... and remember Its not what you look like...its what you do...Always... fortunately, for guys, looks has very little to do with the endgame, if your ugly, just get in there, and show personality. that will work the same as looking like Brad Pitt...So dont worry if you're ugly, it just doesn't matter...


in the end always be persistent
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's a nice story, but if I'm honest, I don't believe it. Or if it is true, I think there was probably more to it, i.e. he was rich and she was a gold digger, he wasn't that bad or she wasn't that hot.

What kind of woman goes for a guy who has been knocked back by everyone else? As soon as she sees that other women don't want him, he has no value.

Persistence of this kind is more likely to get you kicked out the club for harrassing women than score you a date. I've seen it happen lots of times.
 

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The answer is...

"Beer Goggles"!
The girl was probably drunk.
When she sobers-up, she won't give hime the time of day!
 

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now half the forum is gonna flame me for this just watch!!
 

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... Or it could just be that your looks are not all that important to women like I've been saying all along. Women are not attracted to the same things that we men are. Just look around at how many hot women date and marry ugly men.

I doubt that she was drunk. I highly doubt that he was rich, either. Looking pretty will get you noticed (usually by pop-culture influenced teeny bopper chicks), but thats about it.

if you're an ugly dude just be persistent.

What kind of woman goes for a guy who has been knocked back by everyone else? As soon as she sees that other women don't want him, he has no value.
Yeah, I am surprised that he didn't come down with a case of "Loser Syndrome". Maybe she didn't notice.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ok, let's not restart the same debate about whether looks matter or not that we had some time ago.:rolleyes:

Personally my opinion is pretty close to Dirtheart's.

Sure there are girls who are attracted to dudes who may be generally perceived as ugly, but exceptions don't make the rule.
It's like a friend of mine got real lucky, he bought a pretty new secondhand sports car for ONLY 1500$:eek: due to very special circumstances, but should I conclude that you can buy a decent sports car with just 1500$? I don't think so.:rolleyes:
 

So pimp its scary

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You can't forget that it is a numbers game, and consider the other angle. If he puts that much effort into hooking up, imagine that he would also put that much 'soul' into everything he does, a rare trait to have.
 

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So let me get this straight. This guy who is about a 0.5 in looks approaches and gets shot down by every chick in the room and finally hooks up with a HB (who rejected him before) ALL IN THE SAME NIGHT?????!!!!!!!!! I don't buy it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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