"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Insecurity Phone call

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Occasionally, typically at night time when i'm not with my girlfriend, i get "The Call".

This call consists of,

Her: "Hey what are you doing? Who are you with? Call me later, K? I gotta go"


What should I tell her when she's showing her insecurity to me. I've been like, "I'm with my friends at so and so's place, Don't worry about me."

But when i call her like that she'll flip out and think i can't trust her.

Why is it like that? Is that a girl/guy thing where only girls get b!tchy when a guy shows their insecurity. How do DJ's handle when the girl shows her insecurity?

Give me a DJ response to "Hey what are you doing? Who are you with? Call me later, K? I gotta go"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shezz said:
HB: JUMP!

You: How High Sweetie Pie?

Man, things are done on YOUR terms. I wouldnt call back at all until the next day, tell her you were busy last night and tell her that you two will hook up the following night to have some fun. Insecurity is a big turn off, Mystery is a big TURN ON!

You know what to do ;)

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Haha:crackup:

I strongly agree with everything Shezz is saying.
Also, if these "calls" are frequent enough for you to expect them, she can talk to your voicemail IMO.
 
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Yuriy777 said:
Haha:crackup:

I strongly agree with everything Shezz is saying.
Also, if these "calls" are frequent enough for you to expect them, she can talk to your voicemail IMO.
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She doesn't leave voicemails.. She'll call minute after minute. Then when i finally pick up.. She'll scream into the phone, "Where were you!?"
 
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omgwtfm8 said:
She doesn't leave voicemails.. She'll call minute after minute. Then when i finally pick up.. She'll scream into the phone, "Where were you!?"
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Man, make her ass grass. She'd be so out of there if she tried that **** on me. Been there done that, have the f*cking T-shirt.

The ironic thing is, she's probably the one who's cheating, or thinking about it.
 
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omgwtfm8 said:
She doesn't leave voicemails.. She'll call minute after minute. Then when i finally pick up.. She'll scream into the phone, "Where were you!?"
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Reply:
"The same place I am now!"
(hang up)

That should be good for a laugh.

-or-

"Obviously I was away from my phone.
Next time leave a message." :rolleyes:


At least have some fun with it.:p

That or just turn off your phone when you're expecting "The Call" (dum dum dum).
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dude,have some fun with it.

Next time she call's you and asks you where you are/what you are doing,just tell her the first thing that comes to mind

HB: Hey,what are you doin tonight
You:Not much.A friend needed some help digging something,hold on a sec,he is yellin at me for some reason.(pause) hey,i gotta go.(instert friends name here) just pulled a few large black trash bags out of his truck,and we gotta get them underground,real quick like.

HB: Hey,where are you?
You: I think i am headed to mexico.some guy just tossed me in a van,and told me to be quite.But hey,i gotta go.they just pulled out a shotgun,and told me to put the phone down.


She is oblvisly(SP?) crazy,so have fun with her before you get rid of her.Every call is a new oppertunity to make yourself and your friends laugh.
 
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Garamin said:
Dude,have some fun with it.

Next time she call's you and asks you where you are/what you are doing,just tell her the first thing that comes to mind

HB: Hey,what are you doin tonight
You:Not much.A friend needed some help digging something,hold on a sec,he is yellin at me for some reason.(pause) hey,i gotta go.(instert friends name here) just pulled a few large black trash bags out of his truck,and we gotta get them underground,real quick like.

HB: Hey,where are you?
You: I think i am headed to mexico.some guy just tossed me in a van,and told me to be quite.But hey,i gotta go.they just pulled out a shotgun,and told me to put the phone down. :crackup:


She is oblvisly(SP?) crazy,so have fun with her before you get rid of her.Every call is a new oppertunity to make yourself and your friends laugh.
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This is my favorite solution, but I only think it will work if you are driving when you get the call (ambient road noise).
 
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LMAO


I've had this happen to me before. Girl calls non stop, I finally answer and shes all like "Where the hell are you??!?"

Since I only have a HOME phone, and NO cell phone, I replied simply with...

I was out, and obviously I'm home now. I mean sh*t, you called my house and I answered...it's not like I'm in Bermuda or somethin. Relax.
 
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