When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
True. Women know that it's the size of the cake, whether or not her dress matches her shoes perfectly, whether her bouquet matches the brides maids dresses, whether or not they have quail instead of chicken at the rehearsal dinner, whether her stepfather allows her biological father to walk her down the aisle and countless other wedding day worries. The fact is that people put more planning into the wedding than what they plan for the marriage.DJDamage said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
and instead of planning the silly stuff that only lasts a few hours, they should be planning when they should open joint accounts or hang onto separate ones, when they should buy a house and where, how long they plan to work and what they plan to do and when they plan to retire, how many offspring to have and when or if none at all....Francisco d'Anconia said:
That's why everyone should get a PRENUP before getting married and not rush into it. I have no respect for people who get married before turning 21... and then having a kid. How do you expect to pay all the bills when you don't even have a college degree? Raising a quality kid is a full-time job.penkitten said:
I believe this is the only mature thing you've ever said. Possible you're learning something from all of this?PeterNorthisawesome said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Aww thanks... that made me grow a rubbery one. It's kinda sad that you and Dues take me so seriously... sending me PM of gay porn videos. I post for fun... meaning 96.7% of what I say is BS cuz I'm an assh'le. One of my hobby is to f&ck with serious people, they get so into the argument.KarmaSutra said:
Hey fruityass,PeterNorthisawesome said:
Well we all know grammar isn't a hobby. :moon:
...and why would I be interested in watching gay porn? What did that video prove? NOTHING! You obviously don't understand that this user name was a joke referencing to Peter North's ability to shoot a huge load. Still it's pretty sad that you decided to SEARCH for GAY PORN and find PETER NORTH specifically meaning you actually WATCHED IT and made SURE it was him. I'm pretty sure watching gay porn is another hobby of yours. How do u know I'm a wannabe playa? I've dated more models and you... and hey I'm not the 30 year old ADULT with chick problems.KarmaSutra said:
lol