"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The inner workings..

christz

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OK so i GOTTA know what's up

this chick and I we used to have a little thing, and i'm th eone that basiclly put her in the LJBF zone now her being the type of girl she is didn't have any problem with that. considering she knew why i put her there. (she was sorta talking to another guy already)

I really didn't give a flying fu*k so anyway we still talk yah.. but for some off the wall reason she avoids hanging out with me like the plauge.

i've asked her why we don't chill in a group or as friends anymore. And she won't give me a direct answer, not to mention her attitude towards me has been shifting back to "talking" and i keep "defeclting" it away by useing the guy she's talking to as an excuse or "reason"

makes no sense, this girl is one of the few cool girls i consider to be a friend. But WHY is she avoiding me like she is?

I'm thinking because she knows how she feels about me and if we hang out those feelings will come to surface. But i could be wrong
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by christz
OK so i GOTTA know what's up

this chick and I we used to have a little thing, and i'm the one that basically put her in the LJBF zone now her being the type of girl she is didn't have any problem with that.


How do you know that for certain dude?, maybe she does have a problem with it and likes/liked you more than that AND that is why she is acting this way towards you.
 

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Re: Re: The inner workings..

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
How do you know that for certain dude?, maybe she does have a problem with it and likes/liked you more than that AND that is why she is acting this way towards you.
well i guess i'm not really sure if she was totally cool with it but regaurdless she knows why i did it, and that reasons still stands now. This girl is a much better friend than she would be a g/f she's careing and all that but let that be for the guy she's talking to/dateing now

but that shouldn't come between me and her's friendship and yet it does and its all on her part.

She knows i'm not trying to get with her and yet when i ask to hang out or do something or whatever she dodges me like i got some kinda contagious sickness.

And it makes me mad, because she acts like i care if she talks about guys. because she'll start talking about her b/f or whatever he is or other guys she's met and she'll go

"my bad, i know you don't like hearing about that"

i said, look its not like that between you and me anymore, you can talk about guys to me or your problems or whatever is on your mind were just friends

and she trails off and goes oh...

i wish i could slap her upside the head and maybe knock some sense into her
 
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