The Initial Attraction Method

[DJArlington]

Does this sound logical to you guys:

1. Once you get a girl's phone number and take her out one time - go ahead and start to give her a lot of attention, like call her every other day; email her, romance her, etc...

Then all of a sudden take the attention way. It has to run through her mind as to why you are no longer giving her attention.

I know a guy who did it to this girl; and man, she's going flipping nuts right now... She's like why isn't he calling me, and she's analyzing the **** out of it...

Any thoughts on this???

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

I know a lot of guys who pull that **** and a lot of girls who it drives crazy.

Me, I don't fall for that... It's when the guy does all that stuff (calls all the time, etc) that I get turned off like "what is his problem? why is he stalking me!?"

I think a lot of girls will get used to all the attention and then when you take it away instead of being like "when is he going to call me again?"... they're like "thatmother****er didn't call me".

I say you just give her the normal amount of attention you are able to or want to give her. Period. And don't give any more or any less. When you start to call her more, she goes "awww" and if you start to call her less, she says "okay he's losing interest. Time to move on."

 

[cestmoi]

Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I know a lot of guys who pull that **** and a lot of girls who it drives crazy.

Me, I don't fall for that... It's when the guy does all that stuff (calls all the time, etc) that I get turned off like "what is his problem? why is he stalking me!?"

I think a lot of girls will get used to all the attention and then when you take it away instead of being like "when is he going to call me again?"... they're like "thatmother****er didn't call me".

I say you just give her the normal amount of attention you are able to or want to give her. Period. And don't give any more or any less. When you start to call her more, she goes "awww" and if you start to call her less, she says "okay he's losing interest. Time to move on."

Great advice!

 

[Kodiac]

Yeah, it depends on the chick and her IL.

I did it once, it worked wonders, tried it again and it got me no where except in trouble

As a general rule I say a little extra here and a little less there is good(you never want to be predictable) but don't over do it ...

But, if you can tell that her IL is really high, in that case, go for it! Back off and watch her come crawling!