"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the indoctrination of a gender

Chamber36

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I saw an article on the internet about 5 different types of womens' clothing that men don't like, including shoulderpads and other crap. There were comments about how women steal everything men wear. Jeans come out? Women have to wear it. Shoulderpads? Women must wear it.

They take everything that's masculine and try and turn it into something of their own.

Now I thought back to my pre-school days, when I was first introduced to gender roles.

It was like this: girls can wear both pants AND skirts, while boys could only wear pants. The message: girls have more rights than boys.

Now, what happens next? You learn that you're not allowed to hit girls. It's alright to hit other boys but wrong to hit other girls. Message: girls are higher value than boys.

Next now, you learn this one: ladies first. I mean yeah, I could understand that as a little boy, when I looked at the refinedness of a real lady I had to show respect. Then in school they were handing out some goodies, and it was "ladies" first. I said to my teacher: "SHE'S NOT A LADY!!", and my teacher told me to stfu! I was like WTF! How could someone who's 8 years old, never learned a goddam manner in her life be a lady? So that means I must be a gentleman then??

The next one, which I was informed of by Tariq Nasheed, and what happens lateron in life, is they tell you women are the givers of life. That's like saying the oven is the giver of food. Women are actually the givers of birth. We as men have the SEED of life. So we are the givers of life.

Our seed is where life comes from. Women want our seed. That's what golddigging is all about. Think about Boris Becker and how some girl took an empty condom and impregnated herself.

And she's the giver of life? Looks like she extracted that piece of life from the condom tbh. She stole it from Boris Becker.

So we've got

1 women have more rights
2 women are higher value
3 women don't have to do anything to be considered special.
4 women are the givers of life


i want all you men to realise how these things start at an early age. I am sure if you had a whim of logic in you in preschool you'd have found some of these things odd. So think back and remember, and realise that we men are the givers of life, not women.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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I've always viewed gender values as complementarity.

Our ancestors never complained "Man hunt food, woman cook food... ugg ugg!"
 

Chamber36

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Some of the advice I get on this board... *sigh*

Check this out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UaWwSOHqk6I&feature=related

My mom is like: "how come the mom always ends up taking care of the child?!!?" She thinks it's men who force their responsibilities onto women.

They want to destroy the male role model. They are trying to eradicate the man as he once was. Not only that though they want to destroy the family unit.

If there are no men, nobody can fight against the government. You guys must think I'm taking this too far, but without men, nobody can protect the human population. Think about that.

By giving women more rights than men, you make men subserviant to women. This can damage a man's sense of identity, causing him to become moist.

They want men to do whatever women say, which is: give me money and don't worry about the consequences!!

I know women. I know europe and the intense FVCKUPNESS of all this indoctrination. I grew up in the caribbean where women are afraid that they will get slapped if they disrespect men. Just like us men are also often wary that we may get slapped if we disrespect another man too.

I'm just letting you know how it is. To ignore anything that's negative would be ignorance.

They also portray modern dads as children all the time. look what I just found. All you gotta do is google "dad commercial" and you will know enough. here a man is portrayed as stupid.
This "real man" won't put on his freaking T-shirt. He's suddenly a sex-object. Seems to me this real man is being turned into an object for women to lust after, empowering them further.
Somehow it's engrained into this man's mind that being "manly" like the Old Spice guy is a mysogynistic. (excuse me?)

They make a parody out of "real" men and exaggurate it. The message of these commercials is that a real man has to be super manly. They exaggurate it though to make it seem like oppression where men aren't allowed to act pvssified anymore and women are forced into labor.
As if us men are meant to have no soul in order to be manly.

My point is though, that the men have been distracted from what actually makes us men: our balls. Our seed.

Our power is in our seed. That's why that girl wanted Boris Becker's sperm.

See the male lion, he doesn't hunt, the females hunt and bring him his food and he gets the first bite. What do they get back for it? HIS SEED.

We got to focus on our knowledge, because right now, our seed isn't worth much. But when we grow in value, we graduate, our value increases, the women's looks start to fade, and what do they want? Our seed. That way they have free access into the picture that is our life. It's Tariq Nasheed who made me a little more aware of that yesterday on one of his radio shows.
 
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