The increase your own value is the one of the most beta things on this site

[Dhoulmagus]

1) Unless, you are only raising your value yourself!!!!!!! Just like you should lift for yourself, not for girls.

2) You are pretty much placing certain pu$$y on a pedestal, and hoping to one day be good enough to obtain it. In summary, I am not going to attempt to talk to this bland office drone slut until I have a million dollars in the bank.

3) I see ugly/fat/skinny/trashy/beta guys with hot girls all the time.

4) Women are parasitic and will play any just about any guy(host). Just like microbes, parasites do not discriminate whether you are rich, tall, green, popular, and so on. Women have the mindset that if they get caught than the man will just let it slide or they will gain a lot of money from him in the end. I deliver to this millionaire's house just about every weekend and I've seen his trophy wife sleeping with 4 guys while he just chooses to remain aloof and work his strenuous job. There's a reason most pre-modern civilizations had such containment women cultures. Our ancestors weren't knuckle dragging idiots at all.

 

[zekko]

Like your first point states: You should be improving for yourself! Why would you NOT want to improve yourself? Improving your health, finances, career, hobbies, social skills, attitude, etc. will have a positive effect on your life in many different areas, including, but not limited to, women. Nothing beta about it. Everyone should strive to be better than they are.

I deliver to this millionaire's house just about every weekend and I've seen his trophy wife sleeping with 4 guys while he just chooses to remain aloof and work his strenuous job.

Just food for thought: Maybe the guy has four girls he is banging at the office too. Maybe they both have lots of options and choose to live their lives like that, either openly by agreement or by choosing to look the other way. Just because the girl is a cheater doesn't mean that the guy isn't also. Birds of a feather tend to flock together.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Like your first point states: You should be improving for yourself! Why would you NOT want to improve yourself? Improving your health, finances, career, hobbies, social skills, attitude, etc. will have a positive effect on your life in many different areas, including, but not limited to, women. Nothing beta about it. Everyone should strive to be better than they are.


Just food for thought: Maybe the guy has four girls he is banging at the office too. Maybe they both have lots of options and choose to live their lives like that, either openly by agreement or by choosing to look the other way. Just because the girl is a cheater doesn't mean that the guy isn't also. Birds of a feather tend to flock together.

Exactly, but some posters let out this vibe that once I become some alpha millionaire than I will be in pu$$y promise land. Like the ignore girls and acquire currency first motto. I'm about 6ft 1, muscular, good looking, and drive a porsche cayenne and I still got played by some not in shape white trash girl that is not in college. My point with the millionaire is that parasites don't discriminate when choosing their host.

 

[Meisterman]

Exactly, but some posters let out this vibe that once I become some alpha millionaire than I will be in pu$$y promise land. Like the ignore girls and acquire currency first motto. I'm about 6ft 1, muscular, good looking, and drive a porsche cayenne and I still got played by some not in shape white trash girl that is not in college. My point with the millionaire is that parasites don't discriminate when choosing their host.

They can only use you as their "host" if you let them. Time to man the fu*k up and take responsibilities from your past failures. If a girl uses you, that's YOUR fault, at least how you react to it is. Be the badass mother fu*ker that you are and make yourself inhabitable to woman parasites. Like attracts like, so if you keep getting played then take a look in the mirror. If you don't empower yourself to change, then you'll stay in the same victim mentality and continue to be plagued by the same shi**y circumstances over and over again until you decide to change. Constantly projecting the blame on other "girls" when in fact it's YOU.

Girls can't make you feel a certain way without your permission. Make the way you carry yourself as inhabitable to parasitic bit*hes as possible and it will not phase you. They will leech off you into a cesspool of sh*t and vomit looking for their next prey while you remain unphased. Don't invest your internal energy on them, neither praise or blame, and they will have no effect on you.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

They can only use you as their "host" if you let them. Time to man the fu*k up and take responsibilities from your past failures. If a girl uses you, that's YOUR fault, at least how you react to it is. Be the badass mother fu*ker that you are and make yourself inhabitable to woman parasites. Like attracts like, so if you keep getting played then take a look in the mirror. If you don't empower yourself to change, then you'll stay in the same victim mentality and continue to be plagued by the same shi**y circumstances over and over again until you decide to change. Constantly projecting the blame on other "girls" when in fact it's YOU.

Girls can't make you feel a certain way without your permission. Make the way you carry yourself as inhabitable to parasitic bit*hes as possible and it will not phase you. They will leech off you into a cesspool of sh*t and vomit looking for their next prey while you remain unphased. Don't invest your internal energy on them, neither praise or blame, and they will have no effect on you.

This is another form of placing women on a pedestal. We acknowledge that most women are low quality and dumpsters, but we still need to act like James Bond to impress them. I could understand if it was the princess of Whales or something, but really now. I have to act like James Bond to some low quality feminist influenced sloot and if she leaves me it is because I slipped up on being nice for a minute. We can't call them out on their awful behavior too because it is beta. It is still our fault regardless. The woman is always right man. However, if you acknowledge a woman's bad behavior and you choose not to do anything about it than it is your fault.

 

[Meisterman]

This is another form of placing women on a pedestal. We acknowledge that most women are low quality and dumpsters, but we still need to act like James Bond to impress them. I could understand if it was the princess of Whales or something, but really now. I have to act like James Bond to some low quality feminist influenced sloot and if she leaves me it is because I slipped up on being nice for a minute. We can't call them out on their awful behavior too because it is beta. It is still our fault regardless. The woman is always right man. However, if you acknowledge a woman's bad behavior and you choose not to do anything about it than it is your fault.

Did you read anything I just said?

You don't need to do ANYTHING to impress them other than be yourself and not give a fu*k how they react. Which it's clear you give A LOT of fu*ks. Which is understandable because we've all been there. But no the solution isn't trying to act like James Bond to impress a woman. That implies outcome dependency, because you are behaving a certain way to achieve a certain result.

The solution is to be happy NOW and BE YOURSELF regardless of what other bi*ches do. Bi*ches will always be bi*ches so just let them be. Don't pedestalize them, but don't get angry at them either. They're two sides of the same coin. You don't have to try and impress them, because you shouldn't even CARE to try and earn their approval.

 

[zekko]

They can only use you as their "host" if you let them. Time to man the fu*k up and take responsibilities from your past failures. If a girl uses you, that's YOUR fault.

There is a school of thought that says that anytime something goes wrong with a woman, even if she just rejects you during an approach, you should view it as YOUR fault. This way, you are always looking at how you could do things better, and what you can learn from the interaction. I think there's something to be said for that point of view, but I can't agree with it. Pretty much, these are the same people who think that ANY woman can be picked up if you approach her JUST right and do and say all the right things.

You can also say that if a girl screws you over, then you didn't screen her well enough. Maybe, maybe not. But I believe that almost ANY woman is capable of screwing you over if the situation is right, or once the relationship runs its course. If there are things you could be doing better, great. But I don't think taking the responsibility/blame for everything that goes on is necessarily a good idea. Sometimes there are things that are out of your control.

 

[Meisterman]

There is a school of thought that says that anytime something goes wrong with a woman, even if she just rejects you during an approach, you should view it as YOUR fault. This way, you are always looking at how you could do things better, and what you can learn from the interaction. I think there's something to be said for that point of view, but I can't agree with it. Pretty much, these are the same people who think that ANY woman can be picked up if you approach her JUST right and do and say all the right things.

You can also say that if a girl screws you over, then you didn't screen her well enough. Maybe, maybe not. But I believe that almost ANY woman is capable of screwing you over if the situation is right, or once the relationship runs its course. If there are things you could be doing better, great. But I don't think taking the responsibility/blame for everything that goes on is necessarily a good idea. Sometimes there are things that are out of your control.

Yes I agree with you. That's why I followed it up with "At least how you react to it is." because I realized it could be misinterpreted.

The situation itself, as you said, is often uncontrollable. Women will be women regardless. But what I meant is you have to take responsibility for your own feelings and emotions toward it. You can blame her for the situation itself in a detached way, but you can't blame her for how it makes you feel. As you said there are many things out of your control. But your reaction to it, and using it as fuel to better yourself instead of tear yourself down, is always within your control.