Smile: Wikipedia describes it as "A smile is a facial expression formed by flexing those muscles most notably near both ends of the mouth. The smile can also be found around the eyes (See 'Duchenne smile' below). Among humans, it is customarily an expression denoting pleasure, happiness, or amusement, but can also be an involuntary expression of anxiety, in which case it is known as a grimace"
Not alot of us realize the importance of smiling.
We all know how important communication is, especially when you are intending to pick up.
when you are intending to pick up that FOINE looking HB9,you intend to pick her up using communication as your primary weapon, ryt?
because lets face it, you cannot just walk upto the chic and knock her over the head with a piece of wood without saying a word first,
and drag her back to your cave. Fred flintstone was lucky he could do that.
What we use today is communication.
and Of all the communication mediums,
body language or non verbal communication is probably most important when you are picking up.
Women analyze and can sense every little move/attitude shift of yours on their "communication ritcher scale"
Just like earthquake experts, they use this measure to rate you, and their want to communicate with you
is directly related to that rating.
Women also "BELIEVE" they are each extremely good at "reading' people. So you have the need to be extremely
high on their rating to even want to talk to you.
How do you increase this rating you ask? How to make increase your chances of making a better score?
indirect communication and body language is your tactic here.
and the SMILE is your weapon.
its more accurate than a laser guided missile in this battle.
Science:
"Cross-cultural studies have shown that smiling is used as a means of communicating emotions throughout the world.Happiness is most often the motivating cause of a smile." - Wikipedia.
So by smiling, you are portraying that you are happy, content and enjoy life.
You are showing the world that you do not fear anything, you are just happy with where you are.
You can go as far as saying - people will assume you are achieving your objectives and are confident.
key word: CONFIDENT.
What do women want in a man?
If theres one thing ive learnt from this site its:
women love a confident man.
women are emotional.
women love to be happy.
and hence = women love happy, confident men, why?
because happy confident men = happy feelings that women will draw from.
Heres an example of mine:
I was one day listenin to RnB on my ipod walking to work.
some one from my work noticed me from away and didnt say anything at the time.
but later on in the day, she came up to me and asked slyly..
she:"did you get some last night?"
me:"why would you ask me that?"
she: "You were walkin in to work, real happy, smiling"
me:"So? does that mean i got some?"
she: "Well it looked like there was a really good reason, why you were smilin, so i assumed it must have been s3x.."
me: "Could be...
"
she:"Well whatever it was, its good to see, it put a smile on my face.."
anyway point im trying to make is.
women love the highs of happiness, and will try to surround themselves in it and people that give it. even though eventually they will destroy it with their own games.
besides the point.
you need to know, wherever you are, never frown, always have a slight smile.
even if its a sly tilted smile, like you about to do somethin naughty to someones 21 yr old daughter. smile.
And how do you smile?
You get it from within. be content with your life, and happy with where you are.
if you are not where you are nor content with your life?
get out there and start making moves. plan your life out and tell yourself your gonna make it. and move towards it.
set yourself small goals that add up to one big goal and makes moves towards it.
it will give you reason to smile, knowing that you are going towards your big goal
And think of it this way:
Since YOU are the prize...
Who would you rather talk to?
the gloomy sad chic in the corner that looks like she has nothing to be happy about and requires ALOT of work.
OR
the chic thats the life of the party, smiling and looking at her puts a smile on your face, even tho you dont know her?
good luck.
PS: smiling does not have to be limited to picking up time alone.
you can smiles at interviews, when selling, communicating with her parents, friends and at anytime.
its just healthy for your face too
Not alot of us realize the importance of smiling.
We all know how important communication is, especially when you are intending to pick up.
when you are intending to pick up that FOINE looking HB9,you intend to pick her up using communication as your primary weapon, ryt?
because lets face it, you cannot just walk upto the chic and knock her over the head with a piece of wood without saying a word first,
and drag her back to your cave. Fred flintstone was lucky he could do that.
What we use today is communication.
and Of all the communication mediums,
body language or non verbal communication is probably most important when you are picking up.
Women analyze and can sense every little move/attitude shift of yours on their "communication ritcher scale"
Just like earthquake experts, they use this measure to rate you, and their want to communicate with you
is directly related to that rating.
Women also "BELIEVE" they are each extremely good at "reading' people. So you have the need to be extremely
high on their rating to even want to talk to you.
How do you increase this rating you ask? How to make increase your chances of making a better score?
indirect communication and body language is your tactic here.
and the SMILE is your weapon.
its more accurate than a laser guided missile in this battle.
Science:
"Cross-cultural studies have shown that smiling is used as a means of communicating emotions throughout the world.Happiness is most often the motivating cause of a smile." - Wikipedia.
So by smiling, you are portraying that you are happy, content and enjoy life.
You are showing the world that you do not fear anything, you are just happy with where you are.
You can go as far as saying - people will assume you are achieving your objectives and are confident.
key word: CONFIDENT.
What do women want in a man?
If theres one thing ive learnt from this site its:
women love a confident man.
women are emotional.
women love to be happy.
and hence = women love happy, confident men, why?
because happy confident men = happy feelings that women will draw from.
Heres an example of mine:
I was one day listenin to RnB on my ipod walking to work.
some one from my work noticed me from away and didnt say anything at the time.
but later on in the day, she came up to me and asked slyly..
she:"did you get some last night?"
me:"why would you ask me that?"
she: "You were walkin in to work, real happy, smiling"
me:"So? does that mean i got some?"
she: "Well it looked like there was a really good reason, why you were smilin, so i assumed it must have been s3x.."
me: "Could be...
"she:"Well whatever it was, its good to see, it put a smile on my face.."
anyway point im trying to make is.
women love the highs of happiness, and will try to surround themselves in it and people that give it. even though eventually they will destroy it with their own games.
besides the point.
you need to know, wherever you are, never frown, always have a slight smile.
even if its a sly tilted smile, like you about to do somethin naughty to someones 21 yr old daughter. smile.
And how do you smile?
You get it from within. be content with your life, and happy with where you are.
if you are not where you are nor content with your life?
get out there and start making moves. plan your life out and tell yourself your gonna make it. and move towards it.
set yourself small goals that add up to one big goal and makes moves towards it.
it will give you reason to smile, knowing that you are going towards your big goal
And think of it this way:
Since YOU are the prize...
Who would you rather talk to?
the gloomy sad chic in the corner that looks like she has nothing to be happy about and requires ALOT of work.
OR
the chic thats the life of the party, smiling and looking at her puts a smile on your face, even tho you dont know her?
good luck.
PS: smiling does not have to be limited to picking up time alone.
you can smiles at interviews, when selling, communicating with her parents, friends and at anytime.
its just healthy for your face too